056 Chat with DK Green, What is Taboo?

The Sexual Alchemy Podcast

Joining me to discuss today's juicy topic is DK Green, a Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Speaker, and Author. He primarily works with GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity), CNM, kink, tantra, consensual non-monogamy, and sex workers both in his therapy room and as an educator.

Our conversation revolves around the nuances of taboo depending on cultural and religious conditioning, and what is considered taboo in western civilizations. We talk about consensual non-consent sex, breath play, and the fantasies around incest, bestiality, scat golden showers, feet fetish. We also explore the intimate relationship between taboo and fantasy, role play, and the pleasure and turn-ons performing a sex act considered taboo.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

- The broad spectrum of what people consider taboo in sex

- The psychological minefield we enter when we allow ourselves to play with taboo

- The three big no’s in sex and why for some people it is a turn-on to play with them

- The crucial role of negotiation and communication when playing with taboo in consensual sexual relations

- How playing with taboo can be part of a healing process

- The aftercare for the receiving, and the active component in fantasies like rape play or domination

Leaving aside the three big no’s of sex, the definition of taboo will be very different for a traditional married couple and for someone who is into kink. Still, the curiosity of playing with boundaries suggests a desire for exploration, and when we allow ourselves to explore, to move towards the new and unfamiliar, the closer we get to the juiciness of sex.

Resources:

- The Festival of Sexuality: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/festival-of-sexuality

- DK Green’s Website http://www.dkgreen.com

- Learn more about DK Green’s offers https://linktr.ee/DKLeather

- Connect with DK Green [e-mail]

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- Book: Rebecca Lowrie - The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

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