NTM 455: Stop making your ‘undone’ list mean something about you

Nourishing the Mother

Do you ever think “If I can just get this done…I’ll feel worthy” only you never quite feel enough? What would it be like to separate your list, from your worth? Let’s go there in this conversation.

In this episode we discuss:

• When we look outside for our value, we devalue our work
• You can make not getting to your list mean something negative, or you can make it mean an investment in your values
• Motherhood invariably holds the paradox of one foot in ‘fun’ and one foot in ‘responsibility’
• Where are you feeling weighed down and resentful and what are you choosing to believe about that?
• There’s some truth in ‘clear space, clear mind’
• And the inverse is equally true, where we’re using cleaning as a control strategy
• Rigidity creates the punishment
• Being in conversation with your kids’ values
• The lower your self-worth, the more the list will feel like your worth

To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/