295: Ever 'fallen into' a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Here's a pattern we've noticed in a lot of the men we work with:

They've never gone after the women they really wanted. As one man put it, "A lot of times the girls that I’ve attracted have come to me … and haven't been the most stable."

For some men, these dating relationships have even turned into marriages -- without the man necessarily wanting things to go that way. He has felt swept along by the current, often going along with what she wants rather than deeply considering his own wants and needs.

If a lot of the sexual or romantic relationships you've been in have been because a woman approached you, rather than you taking the lead, you might fall into this category. Or if you've been too intimidated or scared to pursue women you find really attractive, this could be you. (We also cover super-crushes here, which you may relate to.)

Fortunately there are things you can do to interrupt the pattern, and stand up for what you truly want. We've worked with countless clients who've learned how to stop being passive and become active agents in their own sex, dating, and relationship lives -- and it has absolutely changed the game.

Remember: It’s always possible to heal trauma, grow as a person, build community, and enjoy a thriving love and sex life. Listen on to hear more!

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

• "I was getting hung up on partners that weren't really interested or available."
• "There was this other thing going on is that the women that liked me, I didn't want. So I felt stuck."
• "It turns out, it was me!"
• "The hidden thing was that having a supercrush was very safe."
• "I never actually had to confront my edges of intimacy."