EP 51: Getting sucked into a drama (in your mind or with a person)

The Gemma Hanley Podcast

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Artificial intelligence is evolving at an unprecedented pace—what does that mean for the future of technology, venture capital, business, and even our understanding of ourselves? Award-winning journalist and writer Anil Ananthaswamy joins us for our latest episode to discuss his latest book Why Machines Learn: The Elegant Math Behind Modern AI . Anil helps us explore the journey and many breakthroughs that have propelled machine learning from simple perceptrons to the sophisticated algorithms shaping today’s AI revolution, powering GPT and other models. The discussion aims to demystify some of the underlying math that powers modern machine learning to help everyone grasp this technology impacting our lives, even if your last math class was in high school. Anil walks us through the power of scaling laws, the shift from training to inference optimization, and the debate among AI’s pioneers about the road to AGI—should we be concerned, or are we still missing key pieces of the puzzle? The conversation also delves into AI’s philosophical implications—could understanding how machines learn help us better understand ourselves? And what challenges remain before AI systems can truly operate with agency? If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. Sign up for our newsletter at techsurgepodcast.com for exclusive insights and updates on upcoming TechSurge Live Summits. Links: Read Why Machines Learn, Anil’s latest book on the math behind AI https://www.amazon.com/Why-Machines-Learn-Elegant-Behind/dp/0593185749 Learn more about Anil Ananthaswamy’s work and writing https://anilananthaswamy.com/ Watch Anil Ananthaswamy’s TED Talk on AI and intelligence https://www.ted.com/speakers/anil_ananthaswamy Discover the MIT Knight Science Journalism Fellowship that shaped Anil’s AI research https://ksj.mit.edu/ Understand the Perceptron, the foundation of neural networks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perceptron Read about the Perceptron Convergence Theorem and its significance https://www.nature.com/articles/323533a0…

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Q: When you keep getting sucked into a narrative/drama in your mind or with a person, how can you best just stop playing into it or is it something deeper?

This is the question I answer on this week’s episode of the podcast.

Together we cover:

How to feel more calm and peaceful when your mind is spiraling or fixated on something uncomfortable

Two questions to accurately pinpoint the trigger that is sucking you in

What your nervous system needs so your mind can stop obsessing and you don’t have to live in your head

Some strategies to reduce the chances of being sucked in again in the future

Plus more!

Connect with Gemma here daily on instagram, and for more resources head to gemmahanley.com

100 episodios

EP 51: Getting sucked into a drama (in your mind or with a person)

The Gemma Hanley Podcast

published hace un año

MP3•Episodio en casa

Q: When you keep getting sucked into a narrative/drama in your mind or with a person, how can you best just stop playing into it or is it something deeper?

This is the question I answer on this week’s episode of the podcast.

Together we cover:

How to feel more calm and peaceful when your mind is spiraling or fixated on something uncomfortable

Two questions to accurately pinpoint the trigger that is sucking you in

What your nervous system needs so your mind can stop obsessing and you don’t have to live in your head

Some strategies to reduce the chances of being sucked in again in the future

Plus more!

Connect with Gemma here daily on instagram, and for more resources head to gemmahanley.com

100 episodios

#Fitness #Mental Health #Gemma Hanley

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