Collaborating with People You Don't Like, by Jonathan H. Westover PhD

The HCL Review Podcast

Abstract: Collaborating effectively with colleagues we don't particularly enjoy working with is a common challenge in organizational settings. However, research in fields such as organizational psychology and communication studies has identified a number of evidence-based strategies that can help navigate these interpersonal dynamics and foster more productive collaborations. This research brief explores key principles backed by scholarly literature, including cultivating empathy and understanding, adopting a growth mindset, establishing clear boundaries and expectations, and aligning around shared goals and mutual gains. Drawing on real-world examples from the author's consulting experience, the brief provides a practical, research-grounded approach for successfully collaborating with people we don't like. By applying these principles with flexibility and creativity, organizations can improve teamwork, productivity, and overall success, even in the face of challenging interpersonal relationships.