Ep38 How Do You Know It's Time for a Divorce?

The Better Relationships Podcast

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In episode 38 of the Better Relationships Podcast, Dr. Dar, the relationship healer, tackles the sensitive and critical topic of discerning when it’s time to consider divorce. With compassion and expertise, Dr. Dar unpacks the top ten indicators that may signal the end of a marriage, drawing from personal insights, research, and real-life examples.
From the persistent inkling that you’ve married the wrong person to the emotional exhaustion of constant conflict, this episode delves into the heart-wrenching signs that a relationship may be beyond repair. Dr. Dar discusses the toll of disrespect on emotional intimacy and the destructive patterns of communication that renowned experts like Dr. Sue Johnson and Dr. John Gottman warn against.
The conversation also shines a light on the various forms of infidelity, including emotional, financial, and dishonest infidelity, and how these betrayals can erode the foundations of trust and safety in a marriage. Dr. Dar emphasizes the importance of defining cheating boundaries early in a relationship and the potential long-term emotional scars of infidelity.
As you navigate these difficult waters, Dr. Dar guides you through the Five Sovereign Relationship Needs—love and belonging, freedom, fun, power, and safety and survival—and how they play a pivotal role in assessing the health of your marriage. Whether it's rediscovering the joy that brought you together or addressing power imbalances, understanding these needs can offer clarity and direction.
This episode doesn't just highlight problems; it offers pathways to support, whether that’s through professional coaching, therapy, or taking the Sovereign Relationship Needs quiz at needs.drdarhawks.com. Dr. Dar provides a compassionate approach to either rebuilding your relationship or parting ways with grace and understanding.
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Welcome to the Better Relationships Podcast where Dr. Dar Hawks shares relationship tips and advice to help you be seen, heard, understood, and supported in your relationships. Taking on tough topics and giving you hope, inspiration, and ideas to experiment with, Dr. Dar Hawks is passionate about creating healthier, happier, and harmonious relationships...
Because when you are happy in your relationship, the world becomes a better place for all of us.

Welcome to the Better Relationships Podcast where Dr. Dar Hawks shares relationship tips and advice to help you be seen, heard, understood, and supported in your relationships. Taking on tough topics and giving you hope, inspiration, and ideas to experiment with, Dr. Dar Hawks is passionate about creating healthier, happier, and harmonious relationships...
Because when you are happy in your relationship, the world becomes a better place for all of us.

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Take my free Primary Relationship Needs Quiz to discover your dominant, secondary, and shadow Primary Relationship Needs by visiting https://needs.drdarhawks.com. This one thing will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and your relationship, and even improve communication and connection between you and your partner.
Note: The quiz name has changed from Sovereign Relationship Needs to Primary Relationship Needs as of July 2024. Please keep that in mind for podcasts dated before July 2024.

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