Ep. 3: Letting Go of What Could Have Been

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Episode Summary: Letting Go of What Could Have Been

In this heartfelt episode of Life 2.0 with God, Tom dives into the emotional process of letting go of dreams that didn’t come to pass. He discusses how life's unexpected turns—whether through divorce, loss, or career setbacks—can leave us mourning the future we once envisioned.

Drawing from personal experience and biblical wisdom, Tom emphasizes the necessity of releasing control and trusting in God's greater plan. He explores how acceptance isn't about forgetting what was lost but acknowledging the reality of our situation and making peace with it. This mindset shift opens the door to healing, growth, and new opportunities.

Tom is joined by guest Paul Berard, who shares his own powerful story of loss and acceptance. Paul reflects on how his childhood dream of becoming an Olympic swimmer was abruptly taken away, leading him into a difficult period of identity loss and poor decisions. His journey toward healing and rediscovering his purpose in Christ highlights the transformative power of accepting reality and embracing God's plan.

Key Topics Covered:

• The emotional process of letting go, paralleling the stages of grief
• The importance of releasing control and surrendering to God's will
• Acceptance as a path to healing and moving forward
• Maintaining hope for the future and embracing new possibilities
• Biblical insights supporting trust in God's purpose (Psalm 34:18, Proverbs 19:21, Philippians 3:13-14, Romans 15:13)
• Paul Berard's story of overcoming the loss of a lifelong dream and finding new purpose

Why You Should Listen: If you're struggling to let go of past dreams or plans that didn’t work out, this episode offers compassionate guidance and spiritual encouragement. Tom and Paul share personal stories and biblical truths that remind us we are not alone in our struggles. You'll gain practical insights on how to release what you can't control, make peace with your present, and trust that God has a new and hopeful path ahead for you.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources, stories, and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

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