Improve your Relationship Over the Holidays: SLE Holiday Rewind Vol 1

Sex, Love & Elephants with Dr. Cheryl

“Dr. Cheryl, can I make the holidays special with my sweetheart?”

“Why do I feel so burnt out at Christmastime?”

“How can I prioritize my spouse?”

No matter what you celebrate, the beginning of December always feels like the unofficial start to the busiest time of year. There are company holiday parties, the kids have their plays and concerts, and the family gatherings can feel endless… And with all that commotion, who has the time to make things feel special with their sweet heart?

In today’s throwback episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, it’s all about taking the chaotic, overscheduled energy of December and using some of it to honor and cherish the one who’s by your side through it all.

Tune in and remember that first holiday season you spent with your sweetie. When you were dating and wooing and falling in love, you probably made a heck of a lot more effort during the holidays. You probably shopped more carefully, you probably did some romantic or sexy or fun gifts, and you probably really thought about: “How can I light my sweetheart up?”

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• In the December holiday season, couples gets lost (02:03)
• Valentine’s Day is a manufactured money grabbing cheap chocolate holiday—but if you open your mind, it can be a reminder to be romantic as heck (03:22)
• Your love affair doesn't take care of itself. You need to make passion a priority (12:13)
• It takes work and effort and repetition to improve and to be good at what you do—if you rest on your laurels, your laurels tend to fall apart (12:52)
• Your challenge is to make this holiday season joyful, compassionate, and generous—but also make it about the two of you. Carve out at least one special holiday date (13:38)
• This week’s LoveByte (14:40)

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource!

Want to rate your relationship on the three keys to great long term love? Take the Passion Quiz.

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