Session 6 5 Values of Healthy Loving Relationships
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Your Host: Shyra DeJuan (ShyTheHealer)
The 5 Values of Healthy Loving Relationships, Exploring FIPES- Financial, Intellectual, Physical, Emotional and Spiritual aspects of finding true love and healing from past relational experiences.
Learn ways to grow healthier in your marriage, in your long-term relationship or future relationship! This session is for EVERYONE!
The way we view, shape and speak about how we feel about a negative experience in our life, determines how we heal. Practice positive language and recognize how it develops your thoughts & actions avoid saying break up, failed marriage or failed relationships. Those phrases create negative language that internalizes negative thoughts about the experience. Use terms like, we weren’t aligned, we grew apart, our separation was a mutual agreement.
We have been conditioned to believe that we have failed at a relationship when the truth is, you went through a relational learning experience and you can take time to analyze & embrace your faults, forgive yourself and the other person for those faults and misunderstandings. Then you can take the time to heal, grow and be better for your next relationship. If you don’t grow and learn from a relationship that was not aligned, you will be in a continuous cycle of those same types of unhealthy relationships or trauma bonds. After ending a relationship that was not aligned to your values, be willing to take at least 8-12 months to heal, find yourself and values before entering into a new relationship.
The term FIPES (Financial, Intellectual, Physical, Emotional, Spiritual) was created by Shyra DeJuan and is based on her Independent Research Study relating to relationships completed in 2011.
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