EP.109 - Simrit & Harjot - PART III - "Marriage Is Not Easy, But It Should Not Be Painful"

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In this final installment of our three-part series, we close with reflections on Harjot and Simrit’s first year of marriage—a year filled with challenges, growth, and commitment. Their journey has unfolded in real time, offering us a raw and authentic look at the realities of transitioning from a wedding to a marriage. Following "You Need to Get Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable" and "You’re a Team and This Is Your Home" this episode focuses on how to move forward together, balancing individual growth with the evolving needs of a partnership.
Harjot and Simrit’s willingness to share their journey has been nothing short of courageous. By peeling back the layers of what it means to build a relationship—one rooted in trust, accountability, and shared values—they’ve helped us all explore the deeper work of marriage. Their story has contributed to unpacking the gap between wedding-day expectations and the realities of married life, offering insights that are particularly meaningful for the BIPOC community.
As we continue to build spaces for conversations like this, we’re creating a foundation for understanding how our cultural roots influence modern relationships. These moments of openness help us bridge gaps, challenge outdated narratives, and construct a knowledge base that truly reflects our experiences.
To Harjot and Simrit—thank you for your bravery, honesty, and generosity. Your story reminds us that while marriage isn’t always easy, it’s worth the effort when approached with care and intention.
As Harjot and Simrit shared, “Prioritize your relationship with each other above all else.” This message encapsulates the heart of their journey—reminding us that when we commit to nurturing our bond, even in the face of challenges, we are investing in a future together. It’s this mindset that will help us all continue to grow, evolve, and build the relationships we desire.

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