A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns. But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?…

Have you ever had a woman say to you: You are not listening to me. You are not empathic. You don’t get it or understand me. Wait a minute, what about you guys? Let’s hear it for the men. Do you find women listen to you? Do you feel understood and respected? Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the c…

Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you wa…

Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman. The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success the…

An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in …

What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of? Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble? What type of men are they? What type of women bad boys? Why do nice-guys finish last? Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

There is one stereotype about the nice guy that he is needy and clingy and stays in a bad relationship no matter what. And yes, I’ve been guilty of that. But what about the nice guy that can’t commit? Can’t commit to a woman or a job or a hobby or even meeting your friend for dinner?Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Recently I was complaining to my personal men’s group about being tired, about being disappointed in the ambivalence in some of the men I work with and men in general aren’t interested in self-development, and just uninterested in anything other than sex, sports and video games. I’ve been doing men’s work for almost 20 years both as a participant a…

Are you hard on yourself and others? Do you tend to criticize and judge harshly? Do you always see life as half empty instead of half full?Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Are you a nice guy who has been diagnosed with ADHD? Or do you suspect you have ADHD? Why does it seem like every man with nice guy syndrome has ADHD too? In this episode we are going to break down just what is happening here and what are the differences between ADHD and nice guy syndrome.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Want to know the best and easiest places to meet attractive great women without dating apps or loitering around nights club? And especially if you are shy. Stick around for this episode Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP and I will reveal where you’ll find abundance of single women and hardly any compe…

Can you relate to this; you’re going along in your relationship, everything is fine and then you say something, something pretty innocent and maybe even a little funny. To you at least. And then suddenly like a dormant volcano erupting she explodes. Expletives are flying, accusations are being hurled and you find yourself like a deer caught in head…

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari share their insights on handling breakups like a man. They discuss practical tips and strategies for navigating the end of a relationship with resilience and self-respect, helping Nice Guys keep their cool even when faced with heartbreak.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of raising your standards and how it can make Nice Guys more appealing to women and boost their financial success. They discuss the transformative power of self-respect and setting higher expectations in various aspects of lifePor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dish out advice on how the Nice Guy can navigate those moments when his woman is feeling ticked off. They share tips and insights for handling conflict in relationships.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the issue of dealing with a woman's flakiness, offering insights and strategies for Nice Guys navigating unpredictable behavior in their relationships.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often finds it challenging to attract womenPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about the importance of discovering and owning your 'why'. They explore how understanding your purpose can fuel personal growth and lead to a more fulfilling life.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari break it down: they discuss how penis size truly isn't that big of a deal when it comes to women.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often struggle when it comes to the art of seduction, exploring the reasons behind their lame performance in this area.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often fall short due to their tendency to slack off and play it easy, holding themselves back from reaching their full potential.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari talk about dudes who fire off dick pics, why it doesn't turn women on (and how they truly DON'T understand women!)Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often lacks integrity, defining what integrity truly means. They also provide insights from Chuck's latest book, "Find Your Way Without Losing Yourself: The Path To IntegrityPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Porn addiction is a reflection of Nice Guy shame. Chuck, Faisal, and Ari show how porn is doing more damage than you might think.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

The Nice Guy's world revolves around his woman. Chuck, Faisal and Ari show why it is essential to have good male friends and how making your partner your best friend kills attraction.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

In this conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck discuss the concept of victim mode and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They share personal experiences and explore the reasons why people fall into victim mode. The conversation highlights the role of self-awareness and language in recognizing and overcoming victim mode. The speakers als…

The conversation explores the concept of the integrated man as the opposite of a nice guy. It delves into the tendency of nice guys to overcorrect and swing from passivity to anger and aggression. The importance of tempering rage and finding balance is discussed, along with the role of shame and the need to integrate the shadow side. The conversati…

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect why the Nice Guy needs more than just a relationship for fulfillment in life.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari lay it out plain and simple: when it comes to the Nice Guy's relationships, if it's bad, it's on him. They drive home the message that it's time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for the kind of relationship you want. Learn more at niceguyshow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the significance of dressing well for the Nice Guy. They discuss how personal appearance can be pivotal in garnering attention and commanding attraction.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the Nice Guy's inclination towards self-help consumption, emphasizing the crucial step of translating knowledge into action.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the Nice Guy's tendency to get easily hurt and introduce the concept of the Spoiled Brat Reflex (SBR). They explore how this reflex affects relationships and offer insights on managing emotional reactions more effectively.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Have you ever had a woman tell you to grow some balls? Maybe your boss takes advantage of you. Maybe you let your kids run the house. Maybe you still go to your mommy for approval of your decisions. Maybe you let your woman step all over you. These are some of the most cutting, painful things you can say to a man. You’re weak. You’re a coward. You …

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari address the common trait of frugality or being 'cheap AF' in Nice Guys, and they explore the underlying reasons behind this behavior.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the transformation of the Nice Guy into a high-value man. They discuss the essential steps and mindset shifts required to evolve beyond Nice-Guy tendencies and cultivate a more confident and fulfilling life.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the Nice Guy's tendency to walk on eggshells in relationships. They share practical strategies and advice on how to break free from this patternPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a thought-provoking conversation about the Nice Guy's predicament, often caught in the 'too good to leave, too bad to stay' dilemma in their relationships.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of Nice Guys and the transformative process of taking women off the pedestal, shedding light on how this shift in perspective can lead to more balanced and authentic relationships.Por Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a candid conversation about their own journey with therapy, delving into both the advantages and potential challenges that arise along the path to personal growth and self-discovery Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the intricate connection between the Nice Guy, their relationships with their mothers, and how this pops up in dating and relationships in some unattractive ways . Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a deep discussion about the Nice Guy's relationship with their fathers; exploring how early experiences can impact their approach to relationships and personal development. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Join Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they dive into part two of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Join Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they kick off part one of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect the Nice Guy's yearning for comfort and a trouble-free life, shedding light on how this desire can hinder men's personal growth and fulfillment in relationships. Learn More at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck and Ari delve into the topic of Nice Guy neediness and share effective strategies to overcome it, helping men break free from this common relationship challenge. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Join us as Chuck and Faisal extend a warm Recovering Nice Guy welcome to official Co-Host and Psychologist Ari Graff to the Nice Guy Show. In this episode, they dive into their backgrounds and much more, setting the stage for insightful discussions to come. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Join Chuck and Faisal as they rejoin guest Ari Graff for part two of their podcast on Nice Dads, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Join Chuck and Faisal as they welcome guest Ari Graff to their podcast, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships. Learn more at NiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

Chuck and Faisal explore the challenging terrain of managing relationships with your ex-partner when you share children. Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.comPor Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman