#65 - Maintaining friendships in adulthood

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We’ve all faced moments of frustration with our friends, even with our best of friends. But why is it so hard to address those feelings and talk it out? This week, we share how it took us nearly 11 years into our friendship to have our first *conversation* with a capital C 🤯

Let’s be honest - these conversations can be super awkward and uncomfortable. What if they get mad? What if it ruins the friendship? Is it even worth bringing up? Whether it’s the fear of conflict, rejection, or just wanting to please others, we’ve discovered that with the right friend, tackling these tough talks is totally worth the discomfort. We've seen firsthand how open conversations, mutual acceptance, and vulnerability has transformed our friendship for the better, and we’re here to show you know that you can do it too!

Mentions:

• YT Video: myths about friendships & what I wish I knew about making friends in my 20s
• E40: Navigating, maintaining, & outgrowing friendships

• E48: The Art of Non-Violent Communication: Building empathy & connection
• Book: ⁠Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara ⁠https://amzn.to/3Xu2auo⁠

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