Things I wish I knew in my 20s

Through the Looking Glass

Are you looking for some guidance? Do you want to thrive in your 20s? In this week’s episode, Lavanya shares her list of things you wish you knew in your 20s! Lavanya turning 30 recently reflects on the lessons, tough truths, and personal growth that shaped her during her 20s.

From learning the power of saying “no” to cultivating financial independence and recognizing the value of self-love, Lavanya shares invaluable insights to help you navigate this transformative decade.

Whether you're dealing with uncertainty, seeking better relationships, or aiming to build confidence, this episode will empower you to thrive. Tune in, take what resonates, and start living your best life!

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Chapters

0:00 Introduction

1:32 1. "No" is a full sentence

2:10 2. Stop being friends with Negative People

3:03 3. Financial Independence

4:01 4. Money Empowers You

4:38 5. Time Doesn’t Heal Everything

5:22 6. You Won’t Find Someone by Not Looking

6:07 7. Wait 30 secs Before Reacting

6:41 8. Don’t Work for “Free”

7:32 9. Let Go of Things You Can’t Control

8:03 10. Not Everyone Has Your Best Interest

8:29 11. Keep It Private Until It's Official

9:03 12. Avoid Long-Distance Relationships

9:38 13. Stop Waiting for the Right Time

10:15 14. Only Compare Yourself to Yourself

10:53 15. No One Is Thinking About You

11:43 16. Enjoy Being Young & Hot

12:15 17. Over-Communicate

12:45 18. Stop Being Nice to Everyone

13:19 19. Spend on Experiences, Not Things

13:59 20. No One Will Love You as Much as Yourself