Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Family Life with Benjamin Stevens

"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

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Dom L'Amour speaks with My guy Ben Stevens AKA @theworstsingerever about Being a father, Music, being married and so much more.
Imagine being known as "the worst singer alive" and using that label to fuel your rise in the music industry. Today, we bring you the inspiring journey of Benjamin Stevens, a singer and performer who has embraced criticism and transformed it into self-acceptance. Benjamin takes us back to his early influences, from the soulful sounds of Marvin Gaye's "Distant Lover" to his family's eclectic record collection. Discover how these experiences shaped his passion for music despite societal and familial pressures.
Navigating the complexities of a musical career isn't easy, especially when faced with personal and external challenges. Listen as Benjamin and I share stories of overcoming negative influences, such as contradictory family attitudes and societal perceptions. Hear how balancing band practices with wrestling in school led to crucial decisions that ultimately defined our paths. We discuss the critical role supportive friends and mentors played in helping us overcome fears and stay true to our musical dreams, even when it meant stepping away from familiar environments to grow.
Balancing a career in music with family life is a continuous challenge filled with sacrifices and rewards. Benjamin opens up about performing while raising four children, the stress of being a touring musician, and the importance of family support. From the mental hurdles of gigging to maintaining meaningful connections with his kids, this conversation highlights the resilience and dedication required to pursue one's passion while striving for personal and professional fulfillment. Join us for an episode that underscores the power of perseverance and the joy of staying true to your craft amidst life's many hurdles.
Opening quote: Alison Krauss

Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

featured song: “Grundy County Auction" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Benjamin Stevens. Members of “Big Bling and the funk machine”

Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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Capíttulos

1. Embracing Music and Self-Acceptance (00:00:00)

2. Navigating Negative Influences in Performing (00:09:02)

3. Overcoming Musical Hurdles and Building Confidence (00:19:38)

4. Navigating the Musician's Confidence Journey (00:28:40)

5. Overcoming Self-Doubt Through Action (00:40:29)

6. Balancing Family and Performing Life (00:47:31)

7. Balancing Work, Family, and Self-Care (00:54:43)