(#33) From Rock Bottom to Real Estate Star: Shelton Wilder's Journey

Stop Bending Over - Align Your Life For Radical Success

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Episode Summary:

Welcome to another transformative episode of the "Stop Bending Over Podcast" with your host, Rita Marie Mendez. In this inspiring conversation, we dive deep into the journey of Shelton Wilder, a top-tier real estate agent and entrepreneur. Shelton shares her compelling story of overcoming personal challenges, including addiction, to become one of the most successful real estate professionals in the country.

Throughout the episode, Shelton and Rita discuss the importance of accountability, radical responsibility, and how these principles have shaped Shelton's thriving real estate career. They explore the significance of consistency, mindset, and the benefits of owning property to leverage wealth creation. Shelton also candidly addresses the eye-opening realization of her own limiting behaviors and the steps she's taking to enhance her business practices using innovative tools.

Notable Quotes:

• "I am really clear. I only want to work with people that want to work with me." - Shelton Wilder
• "Everything's happening for me, not to me. All of the things are just blessings." - Shelton Wilder
• "How you deal with the issue is the issue. It's never what we think it is." - Rita Marie Mendez

In This Episode:
8:49 | Sobriety, Marriage, and Career Transitions
13:54| Radical Responsibility and Personal Growth
|20:56| Healing Shame Through Honest Communication
|27:40| Identifying Ideal Clients and Avoiding Codependency in Business
|33:29| Navigating Buyer Broker Agreements and Overcoming Fear in Real Estate
|38:33| Overcoming Victim Mentality and Embracing Personal Responsibility
|46:00| The Importance of Homeownership and Wealth Consciousness
|49:48| Raising Your Frequency to Achieve Success
|53:07| Lessons in Wealth Consciousness and Financial Missteps
|59:36| Understanding and Overcoming Learned Helplessness
|1:02:31| Top Advice for Real Estate Agents and Entrepreneurs
|1:15:10| Healing Old Patterns Through Awareness and Self-Love
Resources:

• Shelton Wilder's Instagram: @sheltonwilderestates
• Shelton Wilder's Website: sheltonwilder.com
• Monday.com: Project management tool
• The Work by Byron Katie: thework.com
• Books Mentioned:

Your Word is Your Wand by Florence Scovel Shinn

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

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