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Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!! No judgement here. No shoulds. Just a bunch of people figuring this out together. About the host: I am a recovering perfect daughter, elective roommate of my 90 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.
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Contenido proporcionado por Rebecca Tapia, MD, Rebecca Tapia, and MD. Todo el contenido del podcast, incluidos episodios, gráficos y descripciones de podcast, lo carga y proporciona directamente Rebecca Tapia, MD, Rebecca Tapia, and MD o su socio de plataforma de podcast. Si cree que alguien está utilizando su trabajo protegido por derechos de autor sin su permiso, puede seguir el proceso descrito aquí https://es.player.fm/legal.
Join me every week for REAL conversations about the ups, downs and sideways of navigating life with aging parents. We focus on mindset, education and collaboration through a willingness to discuss raw stories and all the sticky topics. Cultural pressure? Financial problems? Family dynamics? Fascinating!! No judgement here. No shoulds. Just a bunch of people figuring this out together. About the host: I am a recovering perfect daughter, elective roommate of my 90 year old grandmother, and a rehabilitation physician who has seen *thousands* of families navigate the chaos that can occur when the unexpected happens (falls, strokes, etc). I've been taking notes and I'm ready to share and listen.
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×Welcome! In this episode we discuss navigating Elder Care Challenges with Frances Reeves In this insightful episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca welcomes Frances Reeves, an accomplished attorney and author. Frances shares her deeply personal journey dealing with her parents' aging process, including her mother's dementia and her father's cognitive decline. She discusses the challenges of long-term care insurance, Medicaid, and the emotional turmoil of caregiving. Frances also offers practical advice for adult children facing similar situations and touches on the importance of planning and elder care resources. The conversation covers a range of topics from financial planning to the emotional complexities of caring for aging parents. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:38 Frances Reeves' Passion for Elder Care 01:39 Personal Journey with Aging Parents 02:39 Challenges of Long-Term Care 07:35 Navigating Long-Term Care Insurance 13:57 Transition to Assisted Living 22:07 Advice for Caregivers 25:22 Navigating Complex Parent-Child Relationships 26:16 Personal Struggles and Growth 30:08 Dealing with Estranged Parents 31:42 Transition to Elder Care Law 32:46 Challenges in Elder Care 38:27 Future Projects and Philosophies 40:03 Support Systems and Resources 44:25 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections 49:38 Conclusion and Contact Information H. Frances Reaves is an elder law attorney and author of Boomers Booming : How to Thrive After 65. Frances is the founder of Parent Your Parents (PYP), an organization dedicated to providing seniors with access to benefits and resources while safeguarding them from scams and exploitation. PYP offers a comprehensive approach, including legal support, therapy, and medical record reviews, ensuring that seniors and their families make informed decisions to create meaningful final chapters in their lives. More info at: https://parentyourparents.com/expert/frances-reaves/ If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk about a perspective on time, who is rich with time? Who is poor? How do we slow it down, is that even possible? How does this relate to aging parents? Emotional Billionaires - Episode 67 Here is the other podcast episode I mentioned: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-the-hacks-with-chris-hutchins/id1560751222?i=1000689258155 Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk about returning to the office after teleworking for awhile and some of the barriers or stress this may present for you or your family. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk about urinary tract infections and my very recent very close to home interaction with how serious they can be. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk about the sibling dynamic that emerges in caring for aging parents. What say you, AI? In this episode of 'Real Conversations about Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia delves into the complexities of elderly caregiving among adult siblings. She shares personal experiences and observations from dozens of families navigating care for aging parents. Topics include the influence of gender roles, birth order, geographic proximity, and sibling conflicts on caregiving responsibilities. Rebecca also provides practical strategies for effective communication and role delegation among siblings, particularly highlighting the significance of clear, centralized communication channels and understanding of legal directives. This detailed discussion is aimed at helping families better manage the emotional and logistical challenges of supporting aging parents. 00:00 Introduction and Holiday Reflections 00:48 Personal Family Dynamics 05:48 Gender Influence in Caregiving 12:03 Birth Order and Caregiving Responsibilities 14:25 Challenges of Being an Only Child 16:03 Geographic Proximity and Caregiving 17:44 Geography's Role in Elder Care 21:10 Family Conflicts and Caregiving Challenges 22:14 Impact of Estrangement on Elder Care 27:30 Flexible Work Schedules and Caregiving 30:02 Strategies for Family Meetings 33:56 Effective Communication and Collaboration 34:54 Conclusion and Call to Action Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! Navigating Gratitude and Aging - Real Conversations In this episode we discusses the challenges faced by caregivers, especially during the holiday season. The discussion explores the dynamics of gratitude, or the lack thereof, from aging parents and the emotional and psychological aspects surrounding it. Rebecca delves into personal anecdotes, societal norms, and various reasons aging parents might be perceived as ungrateful, offering insights and encouragement to those caring for their elders. Introduction and Update Exploring Gratitude and Unthankfulness Personal Anecdote: Camp Experiences Navigating Thanksgiving with Aging Parents Unspoken Expectations and Cultural Traditions Cognitive Decline and Lack of Insight Shame and Embarrassment Communication and Care Quality Depression and Emotional Challenges Closing Thoughts and Reflection Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode we.. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode I am providing an analysis similar to the podcast about Joe Biden back in July - this time I ramble about my thoughts on Donald Trump. Listener beware. Hard pass if you are tired of politics! Thanks for listening Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk to Tracee Loran about her unique experience in splitting caregiver duties out of state for her grandmother. How does she balance everything? What thoughts are driving these decisions and efforts? She is an open book for us today and so much to learn. Enjoy! Find out more about Tracee Loran: https://traceeloran.com/ https://www.instagram.com/traceeloran/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@traceeloran https://www.youtube.com/@traceeloran Episode with grandmother featured! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRxpsbyTaFw Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode we talk about the HOT OFF THE PRESS topic of Medicare at Home, a new proposal to extend medicare benefits into home care, vision and audiology care. Find more here: https://thehill.com/policy/healthcare/4922425-harris-adult-caregivers-medicare-benefit-at-home-care-sandwich-generation/ https://oneill.law.georgetown.edu/delivering-on-medicares-promise-providing-a-home-care-benefit-for-people-who-need-long-term-care/ Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode I have friend of the podcast Lisa Powers, an Elder Law Attorney out of New York state. She has a wealth of knowledge to share, this time we focus on some specific "case studies" with good learning points. Find more about Lisa here: https://www.harrisbeach.com/people/powers-lisa-m/ In this episode of Real Conversations About Aging Parents, host Rebecca welcomes back elder care attorney and business coach Lisa. The discussion covers various topics related to elder care, including common pitfalls in planning, the importance of accurate medical and financial information, and personal stories illustrating the complexities of this field. Introduction Guest Introduction Discussion Overview Horror Story: Medicaid and Medical Misinformation Common Overlooked Aspects Hospital Stays and Observation Status Conclusion Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I talk about the juxtaposition of worlds that are growing and shrinking at the same time, what are some of the root causes and practical solutions to find connection and support from two very perspectives Navigating the Expanding and Shrinking Worlds of Our Lives In this episode, host Rebecca Tapia delves into the contrasting experiences of different life stages, discussing how our worlds expand and contract over time. From the simplicity of a child's perspective to the complex responsibilities of adulthood, and finally to the often shrinking world of aging parents due to various constraints, Rebecca offers insights and personal anecdotes. The episode emphasizes understanding and empathy, especially in caregiving situations, and explores practical ways to support aging parents in maintaining a connected and fulfilling life. 00:00 Introduction 02:18 The Expanding Worlds of Youth 05:15 The Complex, Busy Middle Years 22:32 Technology as a Bridge 23:51 Practical Ways to Support Aging Parents 33:58 A Personal Anecdote and Closing Thoughts Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode we talk again with Niki Feret, our resident expert on all things Medicare! AI summary: In this episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia welcomes back Nikki Ferret, a Medicare expert and owner of Brickhouse Agency. The discussion delves into a comprehensive overview of Medicare, including the differences between Parts A, B, C, and D, and the benefits and challenges of Medicare Advantage and supplemental plans. Nikki offers updates on important timelines and changes due to the Inflation Reduction Act, impacting Medicare drug plans. They also discuss tips for adult children helping their aging parents navigate Medicare options, emphasizing the importance of staying informed and utilizing resources like agents during the annual election period. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Reintroduction 01:47 Overview of Medicare Parts A and B 05:00 Medicare Part C: Medicare Advantage Plans 06:35 Medicare Part D: Prescription Drug Plans 09:07 Navigating Medicare Advantage Plans 18:44 Medicare Supplement Plans 22:31 Upcoming Changes in Medicare Plans 23:32 Medicare Enrollment Timeline and Drug Plan Changes 24:00 Impact of the Inflation Reduction Act on Medicare 24:26 Understanding the New Drug Plan Stages 26:25 Annual Notice of Change: What to Look For 27:06 Switching Medicare Plans: Key Considerations 34:59 Medicare Advantage vs. Supplement Plans 41:14 Future Trends in Medicare 44:28 Resources and Contact Information More about Niki Feret: https://brickhouseagency.com/ https://chicagolandmedicare.com/ Chicagoland Medicare is a premier boutique Medicare insurance agency dedicated to serving retirees in Illinois, Indiana, and Wisconsin. Powered by Brickhouse Agency, LLC—licensed in over 30 states nationwide—the agency specializes exclusively in Medicare, offering expertise and personalized service. With a focus solely on Medicare, Chicagoland Medicare and Brickhouse Agency are passionate about guiding clients through the complexities of Medicare plans and options. They take the time to educate, answer all your questions, and enroll you in the right Medicare insurance policy when you’re ready. To accommodate your busy schedule, they offer meetings via Zoom and phone with a user-friendly website that features an easy scheduling platform. The goal of Chicagoland Medicare and Brickhouse Agency is to empower you with the knowledge you need to make informed decisions and to provide support every step of the way. If you'd like to include my upcoming webinar dates and times in any communication you have with your audience, here is that info: Confused and overwhelmed by Medicare? You’re not alone. Whether you're new to Medicare or trying to navigate your plan's changes for 2025 it’s important to stay updated and informed. You want to make the best Medicare insurance plan choices for your needs. Register for one of our free Prepare for Medicare virtual seminars where we'll cover: - 2025 changes to the Medicare Prescription Drug Plan - Understanding the basics of Original Medicare - Compare Medicare Supplement vs. Medicare Advantage plans - How to enroll if you're new to Medicare - How to avoid lifetime late enrollment penalties - Yearly Medicare housekeeping to-dos Dates and registration link: September 28, 10am Central Register here October 2, 1pm Central Register here October 26, 10am Central Register here November 9, 10am Central Register here November 12, 2pm Central Register here Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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Welcome! In this episode, we dive into the complexities of maintaining relationships with aging parents. Our guest, Marie, discusses her challenges with her aging mother, who has exhibited concerning cognitive and behavioral changes after retirement. We explore the difficulties of setting boundaries, managing inappropriate public behavior, and striving for positive interactions while dealing with underlying grief and loss. The conversation offers insights into handling delicate family dynamics with empathy and resilience. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
Welcome! In this episode I unpack my way of explaining "slow" grief, as opposed to fast grief, and how this can manifest in life, what to do about it and how it may be beneficial! AI Show Notes: In this episode, Rebecca Tapia dives into the concept of 'slow grief' experienced with aging parents, contrasting it with the more familiar 'fast grief.' She explores its psychological facets, ties it to the stages of grief by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, and provides practical advice on how to manage these emotions. 00:00 Introduction 00:35 Defining Slow Grief 02:45 Fast Grief vs. Slow Grief 07:07 Denial Stage in Slow Grief 08:49 Anger Stage in Slow Grief 09:54 Bargaining Stage in Slow Grief 10:47 Depression Stage in Slow Grief 11:33 Acceptance Stage in Slow Grief 14:05 Combining Fast and Slow Grief 12:55 Cognitive Decline and Its Challenges 17:18 Strategies for Managing Slow Grief 32:56 Closing Thoughts Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.…
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