Episode 129: Making The 5 Love Languages Work With Your Children with Paul Zolman

Imperfect Heroes: Insights Into Parenting

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Are you ready to prioritize love and kindness to transform your perspective and foster a more positive and loving environment in your life? This episode holds the key!
In this episode, DJ invited author Paul Zolman on the show to share his remarkable journey from a challenging upbringing marked by abuse to a life focused on spreading love. Listen in to hear Paul tell the story of growing up in a family with 19 children, witnessing his father's struggles and the impact it had on their household. And stay tuned to hear how as an adult, he realized the residual anger he carried and decided to break the cycle… developing the "Roll of Love," a daily practice where he rolls a die to determine which love language he'll focus on that day… emphasizing the importance of teaching children to love to create a lasting impact on future generations.
TIMESTAMPS
• [9:00] Paul shares his abusive family history reflects on his upbringing, realizing he was taught to blame others for his problems, rather than taking responsibility.
• [14:36] Paul discusses his struggles with understanding love languages, citing Dr. Chapman's book as a source of inspiration but ultimately feeling that the applications provided are not effective for him and shares a game he created to solve it.
• [19:39] DJ & Paul talk about using a "Love Jar" to teach children about expressing love and appreciation.
• [28:29] Paul found shifting focus from what's wrong to what's right with others led to reduced annoyance and increased positivity.
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