Navigating Independence and Relationships: Subodh and Aarti's Journey on EYK

Everything You Know About Disability Is Wrong

Navigating Independence and Relationships: Subodh and Aarti's Journey on EYK | Season 3, Episode 2

Welcome to a special episode of Everything You Know, presented by Easterseals. Today, we've got a truly enlightening conversation lined up with our guests, Subodh Garg and his sister, Aarti Garg. Subodh, a charismatic individual diagnosed with autism at the age of 3, shares his journey towards independence, his exceptional memory, and his experiences with dating and social interactions. Aarti, who plays a crucial role in managing Subodh’s social engagements and safety online, provides insight into their sibling dynamics and the support systems that help Subodh navigate his challenges and aspirations.

In this episode, we delve into the importance of the diverse representation of autism in media, the critical role of technology in improving communication skills, and the universal struggles with dating and social skills. Subodh also discusses his participation in the show Love on the Spectrum, his employment goals in accounting, and his passion for travel. Join hosts Erin Hawley and Lily Newton as they explore these topics and more, offering a broader perspective on neurodiversity and the common human desires for love and connection.

Stay tuned as we challenge the misconceptions about autism and celebrate the diverse capabilities and aspirations of individuals on the spectrum.

Timestamps

0:00 - Introduction to today's episode with hosts Erin Hawley and Lily Newton, featuring guests Subodh and Aarti Garg.

2:45 - Subodh Garg discusses his journey towards independence and his aspirations in accounting.

5:20 - Exploring the sibling dynamics between Subodh and Aarti Garg, including the misconceptions about their relationship.

7:40 - Aarti Garg talks about her role as a manager rather than a caretaker in Subodh's life.

10:15 - Challenges of making and maintaining friendships as adults, emphasized by Subodh's experiences.

13:30 - Subodh's take on his participation in Love on the Spectrum and developing his dating skills.

18:29 - The impact of "Love on the Spectrum" on Subodh’s life, as discussed by Aarti.

21:10 - Conversation about the universal struggle with dating and social skills.

24:05 - Subodh and community building: From online dating to maintaining connections with the show's cast.

27:50 - The transportation hurdles and Subodh's use of Access, a paratransit service.

30:16 - Subodh’s employment ventures at Teledelis and Insight, and his educational goals.

33:45 - Lily Newton and Aarti Garg critique the representation of disability in mainstream media and specific TV shows.

37:12 - The role of digital content in Subodh’s life, including his Instagram engagement and travel posts.

40:40 - Detailing the disability readathon initiative and its significance, shared by Erin Hawley.

43:28 - Reflections on maintaining friendships amidst life changes and busy schedules.

45:35 - Subodh’s exceptional memory skills and affinity for recalling specific dates and personal milestones.

49:20 - Deep dive into Subodh's past therapies, ongoing supportive services, and aspirations for travel.

52:15 - Discussion on the broader spectrum of autism and the personal ambitions of individuals with autism.

55:00 - Closing thoughts, upcoming initiatives, and a thank you to Subodh and Aarti Garg for their participation.

57:10 - Call to action for disability advocacy and an invitation to listen in to future episodes presented by Easterseals.

Connect with Subodh Garg

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traveling_subodh/?hl=en

Connect with Aarti Garg

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aartipaarty/?hl=en