3 problem-solving pitfalls that can derail conflict resolution

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3 problem-solving pitfalls that can derail conflict resolution

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Good problem-solving process is like a reliable GPS, helping us navigate a difficult conversation coherently.

Find episode transcript and links here. Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here.

186 episodios

#Conflict Resolution #Workplace Conflict #Relationship Conflict #Mediation #MBA #Business #Tammy Lenski #Society

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Unpacking our stuck stories 3:37

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The story we tell ourselves and others about a conflict isn’t the story of the conflict. It’s our story of the conflict. But what is it trying to tell us? Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Communicate better with looping 5:43

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Effective communication requires both sending and receiving skills. This communication tool will help you do both. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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5 phrases to use when they raise their voice 7:55

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How to lower the volume without fuss or drama and get the conversation back on track. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Replay: What really matters 9:22

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In honor of his remarkable legacy, I’m replaying my 2020 story about Nobel Peace Prize laureate and former U.S. President, Jimmy Carter. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Can this single ingredient shield a relationship from conflict’s aftershocks? 9:23

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Conflict can be detrimental to relationships, but it doesn’t have to be. What makes the difference? Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Express disagreement amicably with these 5 phrases 4:30

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These phrases will help you introduce disagreement in a non-confrontational way. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Keep your wits during conflict with these cognitive distancing techniques 9:21

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Help yourself think clearly, make better decisions, and keep impulses in check with these 11 mental tricks. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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My favorite ways to gain insight into a conflict 7:12

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How I form “provisional theories” that can influence the trajectory of a conflict. Find episode transcript and links here , the QueryCards here , and conflict resolution quotes here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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You're not listening 5:15

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Do you seem like a bad listener when you disagree? Yes, you do, even when you’re an ace listener. Here's why. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my free monthly Substack newsletter here .

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3 problem-solving pitfalls that can derail conflict resolution 8:37

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Good problem-solving process is like a reliable GPS, helping us navigate a difficult conversation coherently. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Venting anger: Why it doesn’t help and what to do instead 10:09

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Venting anger doesn’t help you calm down and increases aggression. So why is the venting myth still embraced? And what’s better? Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Discovering and managing conflict hooks, part 2 9:20

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Here's an exercise to help you identify your conflict hooks and increase emotional agility during difficult interactions. Find episode transcript here . Find part 1 here . How knowing your conflict hooks helps reduce conflict in your life . More about my book here and the free worksheet here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .…

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Discovering and managing your conflict hooks, part 1 8:55

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One of the best ways to increase emotional agility in conflict is to recognize and manage your conflict hooks. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my monthly newsletter here .

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Unburied empathy 5:59

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What we do immediately after we express empathy helps or hinders the connection and alignment we’re trying to build. Find episode transcript and links here . Subscribe to my Substack newsletter here .

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Use these 5 phrases to air your grievances and get heard 6:41

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