Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse with Seth Gehle

Beyond the Monsters

In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Chell sits down with Seth Gehle to uncover his journey from a childhood marked by relentless trauma and sexual abuse to becoming a published author and motivational speaker. Seth courageously shares his story of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional home shaped by addiction, neglect, and manipulation. He reveals the profound impact of the ongoing sexual abuse he endured at the hands of a trusted adult, the silence and shame that followed, and the lasting scars it left on his sense of self.

Through raw and vulnerable storytelling, Seth reflects on his rebellious youth, the betrayal of those he should have been able to trust, and the critical turning points that shaped his resilience. He delves into the complex emotional battles he faced, including the struggle to recognize manipulation and the difficult path to seeking help and reporting his abuser. Mentorship became a lifeline, guiding him through some of his darkest moments as he worked toward healing and survival.

Together, Chell and Seth explore the psychological weight of sexual abuse trauma—its lasting effects on trust, identity, and emotional well-being—and emphasize the importance of embracing vulnerability in the healing process. They discuss breaking the silence, confronting shame, and the role of therapy and self-compassion in overcoming the long-term effects of abuse.

Seth’s Socials

https://www.instagram.com/seth_gehle?igsh=M2J0Y21tNGdlYXZu

https://www.youtube.com/@sethgehle

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Uwjt6kSab/?mibextid=wwXIfr

https://sethgehle.com

Seth’s book: Strength Beyond the Shadows

https://a.co/d/2RI0m67

Suicide and Crisis Lifeline

988

National Sexual Assault Hotline

RAINN 800-656-4673

Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line

741741

https://www.crisistextline.org

SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)

1-800-662-HELP (4357)

Beyond the Monsters Socials

https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Seth Gehle and His Story

01:33 Seth's Childhood and Family Dynamics

05:20 Abuse and Neglect in Early Life

09:14 The Impact of a Dysfunctional Home

16:25 The Role of Foster Care and Its Challenges

18:41 Rebellion and Troubled Youth

27:07 Finding a Mentor Amidst Chaos

31:46 The Betrayal of Trust and Abuse

42:29 Manipulation and Control in Relationships

45:30 The Complexity of Sexual Abuse

52:53 Resilience Amidst Trauma

57:34 Hope and the Will to Overcome

01:12:01 The Complexity of Manipulation

01:25:17 The Turning Point: Reporting the Abuse

01:35:39 Life After Trauma: Military and Healing

01:40:17 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help

01:42:28 Embracing Shame and Vulnerability

01:43:32 The Power of Being Triggered

01:53:19 The Importance of Sharing Your Story

01:57:04 Spring Cleaning for the Mind

02:00:19 The Decision to Heal

02:05:09 The Role of Empathy in Healing

02:06:59 The Courage to Share Your Story

*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.