Heal your life following parental alienation. Supporting and inspiring target alienated parents in their journey to rebuild after experiencing the gut wrenching effects of unjustified cutoff from their child (aka parental alienation), coercive control, DV by proxy, post-separation legal abuse, forced estrangement, and/or domestic abuse. #parentalalienationrecovery #forcedestrangement #coercivecontrol #childpsychologicalabuse #estrangement #postseparationlegalabuse
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Welcome to our podcast Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond. We will discuss the resisting and refusing dynamic, commonly referred to as Parental Alienation, how you know it’s happening and what can be done about it. The literature and research will be presented and show how this form of child abuse is a traumatic adverse childhood experience. Parental Alienation can cause stress and trauma in high conflict divorces. These podcasts focus on how attorneys and mental health ...
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Navigating the emotional and legal challenges of parental alienation and high-conflict family dynamics, the Fractured Families Podcast provides a safe space for parents to share their stories, seek guidance, and find solidarity. Hosted by advocates passionate about children’s rights and family restoration, we dive deep into the untold realities of custody battles, false allegations, and the psychological toll of being alienated from your loved ones. Through heartfelt interviews, expert advic ...
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Navigating Parental Alienation
Jacqueline Rourke, Parental Alienation expert and former targeted parent
Navigate Successfully Through Your Experience of Being Alienated as a Parent "My podcast is the guidebook I was looking for two decades ago when I was going through being alienated as a parent and no one understood what was happening to my family. I learned what works, what doesn’t, and why." If you know or suspect that your children are being alienated from you, NAVIGATING PARENTAL ALIENATION is for you. And it's for anyone who is trying to help or support someone dealing with parental alie ...
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I am an alienated parent of three. Part-time psychiatric nurse, part-time writer. I am also an online activist against parental alienation. I use my knowledge of mental health and lived experience of parental alienation to promote awareness of parental alienation.
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Send us a text Episode Summary: In this episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, we sit down with John Kugel,a father who has been alienated from one of his three children while fighting to maintain his relationship with the other two. John shares his harrowing journey through a legal system that often fails to recognize the psychological abuse o…
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Managing Stress and Health Amidst Parental Alienation In episode 124 of 'Beyond the High Road,' Shelby Milford candidly shares her recent struggles with health issues, including a suspected diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis, and her journey towards understanding the connection between stress and physical health. She discusses the importance of mana…
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How the family court system in Ontario failed a mother and her neurodivergent son
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1:33:06What did you think about our podcast? Melissa has been alienated from her son for over a decade. She shares her frustration with a legal system that agreed with her that she had, in fact, been alienated from her son by the father, and yet was unable to do anything about it. ------------------ Thank you for listening to the podcast Navigating Parent…
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In this episode, we discuss the resist and refuse phenomenon of parental alienation. Dr. Evans discusses the following: Understanding Parental Alienation Looking at the potential causes The impact on children Addressing Parental Alienation Please visit www.naopas.com or www.drbobevans.com for more information on parental alienation and Dr. Evans.…
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Send us a text Episode Summary In this episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Charity speaks with Jessica Lee, a survivor of parental alienation from multiple perspectives—as an alienated child, an alienated parent, and an alienated stepparent. Jessica shares her deeply personal journey, from being separated from her mother as a child, to later…
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Navigating the Complexities of Parental Alienation: When and How to Talk to Your KidsIn episode 123 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford discusses the sensitive and complex topic of parental alienation (PA) and whether or when to inform your children about it. Shelby highlights the importance of focusing on one's own healing as a pre…
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Send us a text Summary: Lindsey Alexander shares her harrowing story of being alienated from her daughter, not by an ex-spouse, but by her own mother. She describes a childhood of emotional abuse, followed by a difficult custody battle after her mother falsely accused her of drug abuse and used the legal system against her. Lindsey recounts how her…
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From Stuck to Unstoppable: Overcoming Self-Limiting BeliefsIn episode 122 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford addresses how to transition from feeling stagnant to becoming unstoppable. Shelby discusses the importance of understanding the root causes of stagnation, emphasizing that they often stem from thoughts and emotions rather th…
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Send us a text Summary In this powerful and emotional episode, we hear from Chris Vega, a tenacious Iraq and Afghanistan war veteran, ex-professional bull rider, and founder of Warriors and Rodeo. Chris shares his heart-wrenching journey of being an alienated father, navigating a maze of false accusations, legal battles, and emotional challenges wh…
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In episode 121 of Beyond the High Road, host Shelby Milford delves into the topic of parental alienation, using the recent controversy surrounding Allison Holker and the late dancer tWitch as a case study. Shelby discusses the impact of alienation on families, drawing parallels to her own experiences with her daughter's stepmother. Despite the turm…
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Send us a text Summary: In this powerful episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Lance Reyes shares his harrowing journey through the family court system, fighting for custody and connection with his son, Cayson. Lance details the emotional and financial toll of navigating allegations, supervised visits, and systemic corruption. His story sheds …
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A Coaching Session on Confronting FearsIn episode 120 of 'Beyond the High Road' with Shelby Milford, listeners are invited to a coaching call between Shelby and one of her long-term clients. The session tackles common concerns and anxieties faced by alienated parents, particularly focusing on the client's fears of encountering her ex and the result…
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Send us a text 💔 Episode Summary: In this emotional episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Lauren Carr, a devoted mother, shares her heartbreaking journey through parental alienation. Following a contentious divorce, Lauren faced manipulative tactics, systemic failures, and the devastating loss of contact with her children. Her story reveals th…
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Embracing Contradictions in Healing and GrowthIn episode 119 of the Beyond the High Road Podcast, host Shelby Milford dives into the topic of personal contradictions during the healing and grief process. She candidly shares about negative feelings (anger) she experienced toward her ex while re-watching 'Big Little Lies' and the resurfacing of old t…
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Principles for Thriving Post-Alienation in 2025In this episode of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford kicks off the new year by discussing key principles to live by in 2025 for those experiencing or recovering from parental alienation. She shares her own experiences and insights, highlights five critical principles, and encourages list…
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Cultivating Abundance Amidst Alienation In this episode of The Beyond the High Road Podcast, host Shelby Milford addresses the concept of creating abundance in one's life despite experiencing the pain of alienation. Recorded during the holiday season, Shelby discusses the importance of shifting focus from loss and lack to abundance and creation. Sh…
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Send us a text 💔 Episode Summary: In this emotional episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Massimo Covello, a devoted father, shares his heartbreaking 12-year battle against parental alienation and false allegations. From losing contact with his children to navigating relentless legal and emotional challenges, Massimo’s story sheds light on the…
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Finding Glimmers and Reclaiming Joy During the HolidaysIn Episode 116 of the 'Beyond the High Road' podcast, Shelby Milford discusses the emotional rollercoaster faced by alienated parents during holidays, birthdays, & all other "triggering" events. She emphasizes the importance of finding 'glimmers'—small moments of joy and connection—to counterba…
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Send us a text 💔 Episode Summary: In this emotional episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Rebecca, a resilient mother and therapist, shares her heartbreaking journey of battling parental alienation and coercive control. From surviving years of domestic violence to losing contact with her children, Rebecca opens up about the emotional and syste…
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Radical Self-Acceptance: Embracing Your Beautiful Self In Episode 115 of the 'Beyond the High Road' podcast, Shelby Milford discusses the concept of 'holding space for yourself' and the journey of self-acceptance. She highlights the importance of allowing oneself to be authentic without judgment and shares personal stories from her childhood and a …
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Send us a text In this powerful and emotional episode of the Fractured Family Podcast, we sit down with Corey, a father navigating the heartbreaking realities of parental alienation. Corey shares his deeply personal story of being cut off from his children, the false allegations leveled against him, and his journey to reclaim his role as a father. …
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In Episode 114 host Shelby Milford delves into coping strategies for holiday stress, following being alienated from your children. Shelby offers practical advice on setting realistic expectations, making plans, setting boundaries, and creating new traditions. She emphasizes the importance of grounding techniques and mindful practices for managing g…
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Send us a text In this powerful and emotional episode of Fractured Families, Konrad Moyer shares his harrowing five-year journey navigating parental alienation and the family court system. Konrad reveals the challenges of co-parenting a large family of six children amid false allegations, emotional manipulation, and financial strain. Through moment…
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In the 113th episode of the Beyond the High Road podcast, host Shelby Milford discusses the importance of being and becoming your own best friend, especially during challenging times throughout the year. Shelby shares practical advice on self-love, including qualities that a supportive friend would possess and how to embody those traits for yoursel…
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Splitting behavior in children is frequently seen but almost always misunderstood. It is not evidence of child abuse as one might think, but a form of adjustment for children. Please visit www.naopas.com or www.drbobevans.com for more information on parental alienation and Dr. Evans.
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Send us a text In this powerful episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, John Israel opens up about his relentless journey through an arduous custody battle and the emotional toll it has taken on him and his children. Facing years without contact with his daughter, John sheds light on the overwhelming challenges of navigating the family court sys…
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In this episode of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford outlines the main reason that many alienated parents remain in suffering. Drawing inspiration from Tony Robbins, she discusses the need to value something more than the pain itself to heal and grow. Shelby shares her personal journey of overcoming feelings of insignificance and con…
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To Gift or Not to Gift: Modeling Unconditional Love as an Alienated ParentIn this episode of the Beyond The High Road Podcast, host Shelby Milford discusses the complexities of gift-giving, particularly concerning alienated children. She explores the common concerns and anxieties around whether to give gifts and how they will be received. Shelby de…
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Overcoming Mental Barriers to Achieve Your GoalsIn episode 110 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford shed light on what might be holding you back from reaching your goals. She explores the concept of quitting ahead of time and acknowledges that yes, being alienated from your children can be a barrier, but doesn't need to hold you back…
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Understanding and Revising First ThoughtsIn this episode of 'Beyond the High Road' with Shelby Milford, Shelby explores the concept of 'first thoughts' – the initial, often judgmental reactions we have to various circumstances that many alienated parents experience. She discusses how these thoughts, influenced by our past experiences, can be harsh …
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In this episode of the Beyond the High Road podcast, host Shelby Milford tackles the prevalent "I can't because..." mentality among alienated parents. Shelby shares her personal journey through financial instability, mixed parental guidance, and trauma, illustrating how these factors foster dependence and hinder growth. She discusses the cycle of o…
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Healing Through Vulnerability: Overcoming Trauma and Strengthening BondsIn Episode 107 of Beyond the High Road Podcast, Shelby Milford reflects on her experiences during a hurricane and the impact of recent events in Israel. She delves into profound concepts of grief, vulnerability, and the deep emotional connections between parents and children. S…
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Episode 5 - What is Grandparent Alienation and why is it a growing problem?
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1:05:49What did you think about our podcast? There is another group of people suffering in silence from alienation. More and more grandparents say they are being alienated from their grandchildren — prevented from seeing or having a meaningful relationship with their grandchildren. ‘Canadian Difference Makers in Grandparent Alienation’ is a new organizati…
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Managing Anxiety and Preparing for Challenges Amid CrisisIn episode 106 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford uses the impending threat of a hurricane in Florida and her preparations as a backdrop to discuss managing anxiety and overthinking, providing listeners strategies to talk themselves down from stressful situations. She emphasi…
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In episode 105 of the 'Beyond the High Road' podcast, Shelby Milford shares a deeply personal story about her pattern of losing sentimental items and grappling with self-judgment. She explores the theme of how clinging to the past and its narratives can hinder personal growth and future potential. Shelby offers insights into overcoming negative bel…
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Navigating Hardships: Transforming Struggles into GrowthIn episode 104 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford discusses practical strategies for managing overwhelm as a result of the challenges we experience as parents who've been alienated from our children. At the core, the episode provides parents with practical & actionable steps t…
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In this episode, Shelby introduces the concept of 'rulesets' and ‘manuals' that we unconsciously create for ourselves and the people in our lives. She dissects the polarizing advice often given to alienated parents, urging them to 'become the opposite of whatever the alienating parent is accusing you of,' and argues for a more mindful, balanced app…
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Navigating the Waves of GriefIn this heartfelt episode of the Beyond the High Road Podcast, Shelby Milford reflects on the journey of navigating grief, particularly after significant milestones and personal losses. Shelby opens up about her recent struggles with grief waves during the back to school season. She shares insights into the complexities…
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Vol. 2 :A Heartfelt & Powerful Tribute to Honor Alienated Parents (Eps 50-99)
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1:32:08Reclaiming Life: Empowerment and Healing for Alienated ParentsIn episode 101 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, host Shelby Milford delves into the struggles faced by alienated parents, using her personal experience to offer practical advice for coping with separation and fostering inner peace. Emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and con…
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Episode 100! A Heartfelt & Powerful Tribute to Honor Alienated Parents
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1:07:31Healing and Empowerment: Overcoming the Challenges of Parental AlienationIn the milestone 100th episode of Beyond the High Road, host Shelby Milford reflects on her journey and the growth of the podcast. Expressing heartfelt gratitude to her loyal listeners, Shelby revisits the difficult experiences of her life, especially parental alienation. She …
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In this episode, we discuss Nick Woodall's article which presented the psycho-dynamics of child splitting in cases of parental alienation. I include looking at what works and what doesn't for intervention. Please visit www.naopas.com or www.drbobevans.com for more information on parental alienation and Dr. Evans.…
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In Episode 99 of Beyond the High Road Podcast, Shelby delivers significant insights on how cognitive distortions magnify the fears surrounding parental alienation. Shelby provides an update on her upcoming course aimed for early October, inviting listeners to contribute their preferences for either self-study or group coaching. She emphasizes the l…
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Episode 4 - Meet Priya, a targeted parent for 10 years
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1:03:39What did you think about our podcast? Priya has not had a relationship with her son for 10 years, despite being his primary and loving caregiver for all of his childhood. She describes how it happened, how the other parent went from not being overly interested in their child to alienating him from his mother while she was undergoing cancer treatmen…
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In episode 98 of Beyond the High Road with Shelby Milford, Shelby explores the cognitive distortions that can unwittingly drive a wedge between parents and their children. She discusses key distortions such as excessive positivity, emotional reasoning, and micromanaging, and their impact on alienated parents. Shelby also shares strategies for overc…
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All too often legal and mental health professionals focus strictly on the rejected parent and alienated child's relationship. The real pathology is actually in the other direction. The focus needs to be on favored parent and the child. Because it is counter instinctual (unnatural; biologically inconsistent) for a child to reject a parent, when this…
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In Episode 97 of Beyond the High Road Podcast, Shelby Milford delves deep into the challenges and emotional struggle that come with parental alienation. She reflects on past experiences, including court battles and the stresses of proving her worth as a mother. Shelby shares insights from Mark Manson on finding purpose by understanding what you are…
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IT’LL ALL COME TOGETHER BY THE END OF THE EPISODE & THE TITLE WILL MAKE SENSE Having said that, the topics covered to get you there are: Understanding Procrastination & Embracing The Struggle to Create Purpose In episode 96 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford explores the intertwined topics of procrastination and creating a PURPOSE …
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Story Alchemy: Transforming Our Inner NarrativesIn episode 95 of the Beyond The High Road podcast, Shelby Milford discusses the impact of the stories we tell ourselves and how they influence our happiness. She emphasizes the importance of re-evaluating and reframing these narratives to improve our interactions and mental well-being. Shelby shares e…
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In episode 94 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, host Shelby Milford discusses her insights and lessons learned from a tumultuous weekend and delves into the common traits among alienated parents and their potential links to childhood trauma stemming from the roles played by their own parent(s). She explores the possibility that many alienated pa…
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In episode 93 of the Beyond the High Road podcast, Shelby Milford celebrates approaching the 100-episode milestone while working on a 'best of' collection. Shelby discusses the importance of physical exercise and nutrition in managing the prolonged freeze response and nervous system dysregulation experienced by many alienated parents. She shares pe…
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