Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions a ...
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Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive ...
Andee Martineau - Podcaster, Best-Selling Author, Parenting Coach
Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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How has the pandemic affected children's mental health? What is children's mental health? What is trauma? How do I know if my child has been effected by the trauma of the pandemic? Find definitions, strategies and solutions in this timely podcast!
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Rooted Working Mom, How to Mother God’s Way, Faith-Led Mom Coach, Christian Mom Podcast, Connect With Your Kids, Self Care Tips for Moms, Clarity on Motherhood Purpose, Gospel Centered Parenting
Cynthia Castro | Working Mom Holy Spirt-Led Mom Coach, Christ Centered Parenting Coach
Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom podcast! Find True Rest in Jesus, Rise in Your God-Given Authority & Raise Kingdom Kids Steward & Connect With Your Kids Through Gospel Centered Parenting, as a Busy Working Mom God-Led Wholeness Coaching in Faith, Motherhood, Wellness, & Mindset Find Clarity and Purpose in Your Motherhood Let Go of Working Mom Guilt Say Goodbye to Burnout Hey sweet mama! If you’ve been in a space of overwhelm, exhaustion, struggle, and feeling like you are just not good eno ...
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Weaknesses—we all have them, but most of us try to hide, fix, or fight them. Here’s the thing: embracing your weaknesses isn’t just good for you; it’s good for your parenting. When you understand and accept all parts of yourself, you show up with more patience, compassion, and connection for your kids. In this episode, we’re talking about: Why avoi…
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The holidays are a magical time, but they can also be overstimulating and stressful for children, particularly for those with strong-willed or highly sensitive personalities. In today’s episode, we dive into the joys and challenges of the holiday season—especially when it comes to managing big emotions and behaviors in kids. Jennifer's Takeaways: W…
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Discover how embracing discomfort and leaning into challenging conversations and behavior can strengthen your relationship with your kids. Whether you're dealing with a teenage boy obsessed with video games or confronting values that clash with your own beliefs, I'm sharing practical advice on how to stay connected and supportive. By coming alongsi…
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Today we're flipping the script on parenting challenges, showing you how to ditch the “right vs. wrong” mindset and embrace a whole new way of connecting. Whether your kids are throwing tantrums, skipping curfews, or leaving their dishes untouched (again), my practical tools—like the Peace Process and STEAR Model—will help you show up calm, confide…
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With the holidays just around the corner, it's crucial to show up in a way that fosters beautiful memories with our loved ones. That's why I've invited my dear friend Jennifer to join us in this episode. Jennifer is a master at intentional event creation, and I've learned so much from her over the years. In our conversation, we explore the concept …
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Yo, friends! 🎉 Can you believe 2025 is knocking at the door? Neither can I—time flies when you’re trying to keep your kids alive and help them become amazing humans, right? This episode is all about a simple yet powerful idea: future-self videos. Inspired by YouTube personality MrBeast, we’re diving into how talking to your future self can spark cl…
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What if your thoughts are shaping more of your parenting experience than you realize? In this episode, we unpack thoughtwork, the powerful process of understanding and reshaping the patterns in your brain that drive emotions, actions, and results. Learn how tools like STEAR and Daily Peace help you identify subconscious beliefs, process emotions ef…
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Some parents shy away from using rewards or positive consequences, fearing it might feel like bribery or paying their kids to behave. While overusing this method can backfire, when used thoughtfully, positive reinforcement can be a powerful way to encourage better behavior, build positive habits, and instill confidence in your child. Join me as we …
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Ever wondered what parenting, Mexican food, jet lag, and 84-degree ocean water have in common? Buckle up for this episode, where I take you behind the scenes of my travels (hello from Thailand!) and into the heart of Connect Method Parenting. Here’s what’s on the menu: 🌮 How craving connection is a lot like craving Mexican food when you’re miles aw…
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Hello, friends! 🌟 Today, we're diving into the all-important concept of parental determination. It all started with a dinner conversation about cars that unexpectedly turned into a deep dive into resilience, grit, growth, and determination. I knew I had to share this with you. Here's what we're unpacking: The Power of Determination: Discover why de…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we explore why anger is often the default emotion for neuro-spicy gladiator kids. Whether they’re tired, scared, overwhelmed, or even hungry, these children often express their emotions as anger—a response that’s challenging for parents to handle. Learn how to decode the feelings behind your child’s outbursts…
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Hey, who do you think you are?! And who do you think your kids are? The answer is what I call a narrative. You've got one about bedtime, one about the kids fighting (of course), and oh, here's a fun one... the messy house. Yep, all of it lives inside the stories you tell yourself every day. Today we're taking a look at your narratives, and how they…
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One of the biggest ways that we thwart our growth and, ultimately, our success as parents is by living through the habits, patterns, and identities of our past that no longer serve us. Ultimately what you WANT and decide to do impacts how you parent. Your wants lead to decisions and the decisions you make are the point of power in your life and wit…
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In this week's episode of Connected Parenting, we are talking about a common parenting challenge: kids faking illnesses to avoid school or other commitments. While many parents can recall pulling the same trick in their childhood, handling it as an adult brings up a whirlwind of emotions—guilt, frustration, doubt, and even anger. How do you balance…
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Whether you’re stuffing your face with turkey or just looking for a fresh take on gratitude, this episode will be your go-to. I've got a simple (and surprisingly fun) exercise for you: the “want-have” list. Trust me —it’s like gratitude on steroids. Hit play and let's get started. Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast…
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Tired of chasing after your kids' attention, wishing they’d just listen already? Plot twist: instead of trying to get their attention through behavior battles, let’s flip the focus to giving them the kind of attention that matters. In this episode, we’re breaking down why high-quality, intentional attention is the secret sauce to getting the connec…
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Hello Mama! Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom Podcast, where we empower God-led working moms to nurture their faith while successfully navigating our careers and family life. Now that the new school year is well underway and parent/teacher conferences wrap up, I was reminded that one of the important areas of focus for us as moms is the friendships…
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Welcome to another episode of Connected Parenting! Today, we’re tackling a topic many parents struggle with—consequences. From figuring out what’s fair, natural, and effective to dealing with those moments when your overreaction leaves you questioning how to backtrack. In this episode, I’ll walk you through practical strategies to establish meaning…
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I teach about Emotional Expression ALL. THE. TIME! If you're in League with me (my amazing CMP implementation program) you've heard me talk nonstop about this. Because taking the trip from Mad --> Sad is where it's at. Today I'm taking you on a bit of a journey. I'm sharing an experience from earlier this week where I allowed myself, okay let's be …
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Are you consuming or creating? Are you thinking about doing something, or are you actually doing it? We're diving into the difference between massive and passive action in parenting. As the holidays approach, we're talking about how to maintain a calm, confident, and connected parenting approach, no matter the season. Explore the concept of massive…
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Today, we're diving into the power of play, especially for kids with big emotions that feel too large for their small bodies to handle. These big-feeling kids often experience surges of emotion that can lead to outbursts, clinginess, or even cycles of frustration and shame. But with the right kind of play, we can help them release these overwhelmin…
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By pulling out and examining our thoughts and emotions, we can decide which ones serve us and which ones need to be let go. This practice is crucial for maintaining a calm and connected parenting approach, especially in emotionally charged situations. Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast…
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I'm sharing practical insights on building connection with children through empathy, presence, and truly seeing and hearing them. I share one of my favorite poems of all time by John Rodel. It doesn't have a title but I call it “The Tear Catcher.” This poem captures the power of being there without trying to fix, showing how empathy can create a la…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we’re diving into a fundamental concept in effective parenting—self-regulation. Titled “Be That to See That,” this episode explores the critical role our own emotional regulation plays in helping our children manage their emotions and behaviors. Parenting is a journey filled with joy, laughter, and priceless …
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In this powerful finale of our five-day Connect Method Parenting Bootcamp, we’re wrapping up with the ultimate blueprint for connection-first parenting! I’m guiding you through creating a parenting structure rooted in trust, influence, and, most importantly, connection with your child. Just like you wouldn’t build a house without a blueprint, this …
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I understood exactly three words: rápido, izquierda, and muy bien. But I didn’t need to know Spanish to get the point—the instructor’s tone, expression, energy, and body language said it all. Just like your tone, expression, energy, and body language say it all to your kids. They can read you like a hawk. That's why parenting "tips and tricks' aren…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, I dive into a concept I call emotional glare—a phenomenon that every parent of a strong-willed, reactive child has likely experienced. If you have a sassy, feisty, gladiator child who seems to be in constant conflict with the world, you know exactly what I’m talking about. Emotional glare is what happens when…
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Today, we're diving into the heart of what makes parenting click—connection! We'll explore why attachment is our #1 need and how it shapes every little interaction with our kids. Join Andee as she shares gems from her recent five-day training, giving you the inside scoop on the Connect Method Parenting framework. Whether you're ready for the Parent…
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Today's focus is on emotions, nervous systems, and triggers. We explore how our perceptions shape our emotional experiences and how to navigate these emotions with compassion and understanding. The PEACE process helps us pause, explore, affirm, and create new responses, fostering emotional regulation and deeper connections with our children. Let's …
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To celebrate us starting the PIVOT this week, I'm sharing a five day training I did about a month ago with you all. So excited to share it. It's going to be a great resource for everyone who's starting the PIVOT with me this week because we're going to be spending the next eight weeks deep div…
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TODAY IS THE LAST DAY TO APPLY FOR THE PIVOT!! The PIVOT is an 8-Week program where you learn the entire CMP Framework in 8 weeks and orientation week starts on MONDAY!!! In 8 weeks, moms who've gone through the PIVOT reported a 251% improvement in their kids listening (without threats) and a 246% increase in their ability to handle challenging sit…
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For most kids Halloween and the time leading up to it can be really fun and they love it. But for a lot of very sensitive children the feelings and reactions can be quite the opposite and extremely anxiety provoking. Everywhere they look they are seeing scary images on every lawn, and on every commercial on television, there’s images of witches, gh…
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We talking about the concept of living in acceptance and how it can revolutionize your parenting approach. Learn about the invisible rulebook, or "manual," that we unknowingly write for others and how it impacts our emotional well-being. I explain the difference between unconscious and conscious rules and how taking ownership of your emotions can l…
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Ep #89 The Pivot
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Your ability to overcome obstacles, to be inconvenienced, and to do it anyway will change your life. Today I'm talking about the final Parenting Pivot of the year. Whether you’ve been with me since the beginning or you’re just tuning in, this pivot is designed for every parent ready to embrace a connective way of parenting. We’re diving into an eig…
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One of the most common things I hear from parents is, “What if I had found you sooner?” It’s such a powerful question, and my answer is always the same—it’s never too late. Whether your kids are young, teenagers, or fully grown adults, repair is possible, and it can transform your relationships. Parenting is a delicate dance between setting boundar…
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Ever wish you could feel confident, compassionate, or curious on demand? In this episode, I walk you through the five essential understandings for creating emotions intentionally. I'll show you how to tap into the power of your thoughts to generate the feelings you want, so you can show up as your best self for your kids—every single day. We also d…
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Let's talk about why as parents we want to be likeable but also need to have the courage to be disliked by our kids. Learning to give others permission not to like you can free you to focus on what really counts: liking yourself. Tune in for some real talk on parenting with confidence! Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podc…
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In today’s guest series episode, I had an incredible conversation with Eli Harwood, a licensed therapist, attachment expert, and mother of three from Colorado. Eli has spent the past two decades immersing herself in attachment research and is on a mission to make the world a better place, one relationship at a time. We discussed the critical import…
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In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of parenting with a conversation about unconditional love. It's a topic that's both incredibly rewarding and undeniably challenging, especially when it comes to parenting. But before we get into that, a quick celebration is in order—our podcast just turned one! 🎉 If you’ve enjoyed listening, conside…
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In this episode, we dive into fear and how it holds us back from living fully and being the parent we want to be. Fear comes up often in my coaching sessions with moms. Sometimes, it’s obvious, like fearing that letting go of consequences will mean kids won’t learn. Other times, it’s hidden beneath feelings of resentment or self-criticism. The trut…
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Welcome back, connected parents! Today we’re diving into the fascinating world of the brain, specifically the Reticular Activation System (RAS). You might be wondering—what is the RAS, and why should it matter to you as a parent? In this episode, we’ll explore how the RAS filters information and determines what we pay attention to, how it influence…
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I'm using this episode to break down an emotional takeover. I'll be sharing a real-life situation from a few weeks ago, unpacking what happened, how I could have prevented it, and how we can better prepare for stressful moments in the future. We'll dive into handling unexpected situations, the power of a clean apology, and how to address those snea…
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Acceptance isn't about throwing in the towel or turning a blind eye to misbehavior—it's about stepping into the present moment like you handpicked it. It's about handling tricky situations in a way you respect that serves your child's highest good. 🌟 I'm breaking down how acceptance—of the past, present, and future — will release you from frustrati…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we dive into the difficult topic of putting kids in the middle of adult conflicts. It's tempting, especially in the heat of the moment, to say things like, "Did you see what daddy just did?" or "Can you believe your mother just talked to me like that?" Even though we know this isn't the right thing to do, it'…
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Ep #82 Believing New Things: How to Shift Your Parenting Mindset
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We're talking about how to believe new things so that you can change how you show up and navigate tricky situations with your kids without your children needing to change a single thing. It's what I call FREEDOM and ironically is one of the things that leads the kids to WANTING to listen better. Whether it's a past event you still feel icky about o…
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Ep #81 A Life-Fully Lived: Choosing to Feel Your Emotions & Helping Your Children Do The Same
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There's a difference between emotions and feelings. Emotions are the automatic physiological responses, and feelings are the cognitive awareness of those emotions. I'll explain why understanding the difference is important. I'm also talking about how to genuinely feeling and processing your emotions. Despite being emotional creatures by nature, man…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we’re diving deep into the world of gladiator kids—those feisty, strong-willed, and intensely challenging children who push back at every turn. These spirited kids often test the limits, leaving parents feeling exhausted, judged, and overwhelmed. Parenting a gladiator child can be incredibly tough, and it’s a…
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Today we're talking about the differences between blame and responsibility. How to identify when you're slipping into blame and how to shift towards taking responsibility. The impact of blame on your relationships with your children and others. Some practical strategies to move from blame to responsibility, empowering yourself and improving your pa…
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Let's talk about the art of failing productively, and transforming setbacks into opportunities for growth and resilience in life and in parenting. Today we're... Redefining failure How the fear of failure trips parents up Setting expectations and learning from unmet ones How to avoid "failing ahead of time" and the importance of iteration Strategie…
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Whether it's tasting a new food, petting an unfamiliar dog, or watching a thrilling movie, each child faces unique challenges when it comes to taking risks. But what if we could help them build the courage to face the new and unknown? Imagine how those brief moments of bravery could boost their confidence and enrich their life experiences. In this …
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