Welcome to Transparency Talk Podcast™️, where you’ll hear the facts stated with opinions. We are giving you nothing but the real and raw of things we’ve faced, dealt with, or have came across in life! Nothing is sugar coated and nothing is left out! Well maybe names, but you get the point lol. Remember your light is just as important as anyone else's! You matter! Thank you for tuning in. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transparentcytalk/support
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Welcome to "Transparency Talk with Nikkia Preval," the podcast that delves into the various aspects of life, from marriage and dating to parenting and everything in between. Join us as we embark on meaningful conversations, providing a platform for open and honest discussions. Hosted by the insightful Nikkia Preval, this podcast aims to shed light on the complexities of relationships, offering practical advice and sharing personal experiences. Whether you're navigating the ups and downs of m ...
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parents of trans kids talking transparently about life, news & parenting. Hosted by Cody Conner, Melissa Lukeson and Thea Ross. Produced in partnership with The Calos Coalition, a 501(c)3 registered in the state of Virginia. Head to https://www.talkingtransparency.com to learn more and listen to all of our published episodes or visit and subscribe via our Patreon to help support the program! https://www.patreon.com/TalkingTransparency
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In this episode, we explore upcoming community events, the Transgender Week of Awareness, the Transgender Day of Remembrance, and more. We celebrate Sarah McBride's historic win, while Melissa highlights a powerful app that lets you "vote with your dollars." Cody shares a personal story about his youngest discovering the truth behind his intricate …
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We are talking about upcoing community events, resilience and the outcome of the election with Producer Ty on the couch. Melissa and Thea share earnest and raw emotions - and Cody share's his retrospectives and thoughts on the future after his recent unsuccessful bid for Virginia Beach city council in district 8. check out our link tree to follow u…
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Cody and Thea are in the studio to talk about the election, immigration, and the presidential debate! The Republicans are not sending their best... Register to vote, and check out Cody Conner's Campaign Website https://www.connerforvb.com/ Sign up for these events at https://www.caloscoalition.com/events As always, visit www.caloscoalition.com to l…
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From the window to the Walz! We're talking national and local politics today, with our resident experts, organizers, and politicos. Register to vote, and check out Cody Conner's Campaign Website https://www.connerforvb.com/ Sign up for these events at https://www.caloscoalition.com/events As always, visit www.caloscoalition.com to learn, volunteer,…
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Episode 19 - Talking Transparently w/ Jayme Drew
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Today we're speaking with Jayme Drew of the All Genders Photo Project, which brings joyful, affirming experiences to transgender folks and anyone else participating who wants to give more thought to their gender and experiences surrounding gendered expectations. We talk about their work, and their travels, and coming out in a relationship. Register…
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Talking Transparency 18 - Talking Transparently about Politics
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Thea, Melissa, and Cody talk about local vs national politics, voting, and our grand old Democratic Party! Register to vote, and check out Cody Conner's Campaign Website https://www.connerforvb.com/ Sign up for these events at https://www.caloscoalition.com/events As always, visit www.caloscoalition.com to learn, volunteer, or donate! Visit us on P…
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Episode 17 - Talking Transparently about VB City Council
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This week we discuss Virginia Beach City Council and More! --- If you would like to support the Calos Coalition and help us spread trans joy in the 757, please consider donating or becoming a member at www.caloscoalition.com/donate. Help us fulfill Trans Wishes and continue to bring family focused fun to gender diverse families. Events May 2nd Tran…
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I am thrilled to announce the return of Transparency Talk With Nikkia Preval for Season 5! In Episode 1, we will be diving into the topic of Labels. Join me as we explore the labels that others may place on us, as well as the labels we place on ourselves. Let's embrace transparency and have an open conversation Instacart - Groceries delivered in as…
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We have a rising star in the studio this week: Zion Ova-Dupree - the winner of Mr. Trans Virginia 2024, and the state representative of Virginia in the Mr. and Ms. Trans USA National Pageant! He is a Monarch, a Thriving Transman of Color, and a young man trying to forge his own path and master his own destiny. We talk with him about his life, famil…
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Episode 15 - Talking Transparently w/ Jeremy Rodden
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Join us as we chat with Jeremy Rodden, a dedicated activist and community organizer. Jeremy, a former candidate for VA House District 90 and the Chesapeake School Board, co-founded Pride in the Peake, Chesapeake’s annual Pride event. In our conversation, we delve into local politics in Hampton Roads, exploring some of the recent history and nuances…
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Episode 14 - Talking Transparency w/ Gabe Harrell
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Today we're talking transparently with Gabe Harrell, a local comedian and improv comedy actor and frequent participant in the 48-hour film festival. Today, we're diving into his story, his recent travels, and his burgeoning career in filmography. We talk about comedy, thriving, and the individual process of reconciling identity. PlugsCheck out his …
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Episode 13 - Talking Transparency w/ Amy Newsom
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On todays’ episode we are talking transparently with Amy Newsom, our friend and a staff member at the 757 Creative ReUse Center. We talk about parenthood, homeschooling, values and beliefs, and briefly discuss the so-called “Protect Kids Act” in California. With Amy joining us as a friend, you can expect the conversation to take some intriguing tur…
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Episode 12 - Talking Transparency w/ Heather St. Amand
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Today, we're talking with Heather St. Amand, a political consultant and Field Strategist for Progressive, Democratic candidates in both Virginia and Florida. We talk about the political landscape, how she got into organizing, what her experiences in Florida, and what we can do to avoid that in Virginia, or at least what steps are being taken. If yo…
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Episode 11 - Talking Transparency w/ De Sube and Tracey Swinarsky
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Today, we're having an open and candid conversation with De Sube and Tracey Swinarsky, long-time trans activists in Hampton Roads and the founders of the Transgender Assistance Program of VA. We'll be discussing activism, the inception of TAP VA, the significance of Trans Day of Visibility, cross-cultural organizing, the plot to destroy public educ…
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Episode 10 - Talking Transparency w/ Miss Victoria
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Today we're talking transparently with Miss Victoria about her journey, faith, and family, and then we share some updates on the situation in Oklahoma surrounding the murder of Nex Benedict, some details from our trip to the General Assembly with our trans sibs and Equality VA, and we discuss the Supreme Court agreeing to hear Trump’s immunity clai…
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Episode 9 - Talking Transparency w/ Melissa Lukeson
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Today we're talking transparently with Melissa Lukeson about Virginia Beach School Board Member Mike Callan visit to our Trans Family Dinner in a conversation you will not want to miss!. After that lighter conversation, we discuss the tragic and senseless murder of Nex Benedict in Oklahoma, and discuss the legislation and events surrounding the mur…
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Episode 8 -Talking Transparency w/ Cody Conner
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Today we're talking transparently with Cody Conner about his conversation with Virginia Beach School Board Member Mike Callan. There are no sources for this episode because the deets were so juicy we didn't have time to get to an article! You're going to want to hear this one 😉 Calendar February 18th Trans Family Dinner February 22nd Love yourself …
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Episode 7 - Talking Transparency w/ Dexter Davis
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*UPDATED AUDIO* Sorry for the delay in sharing the long-awaited interview with Dexter Davis. Despite the audio quality issues*, the conversation itself is truly compelling. I encourage you to give it a listen and appreciate the insightful discussion we had. We've fixed the audio issues for the next episode, and will be having Dexter on again in the…
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Episode 6 - Talking Transparency w/Sabrina Scarlet
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Today, Melissa and Thea sit down with Sabrina Scarlet, an accounting student and musician to talk about music, flags, and family! Donate to our Trans Wish List Fundraiser by following this link SKS will be playing February 3rd @The Purple Buffalo in North Charleston, SC Check out SKS on Instagram @sksmusic_official Check out SKS on Soundcloud, Band…
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Episode 5 - Talking Transparency w/ Gray Lyden
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Today, Cody and Ty sit down with Gray Lyden, the President of the ODU Sexuality and Gender Alliance, the only queer organization on the campus of Old Dominion University in Norfolk, VA. We discuss their student led initiatives, school life, queer activism, stereotypical gender roles, if the kids are still "Rocking the Vote", and what it means to be…
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Episode 4 - Talking Transparency w/ Jessica Gurley
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Today, Melissa, Cody, and Thea sit down with Jessica Gurley to discuss parenting, politics, and her work providing a safe space for parents, grandparents, guardians and allies to learn about what their gender-diverse child is experiencing and the best ways to support them. Visit https://www.757transfamily.com/ to learn more about her work. Sources …
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Episode 3 - Talking Transparency w/ Mel Howard and Amore Harrell
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Today Melissa, Cody, and Thea sit down with Mel Howard and Amore Harrell from Thriving Transmen of Color to talk about how they met, the wonderful work they are doing, and how you can get involved! Thriving Transmen of Color is an organization with international reach founded and operating here in the 757. Shout out to Daroneshia Duncan-Boyd with T…
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This week, we're bringing you a special minisode of Talking Transparency. Due to holiday scheduling conflicts, our regular hosts couldn't join us, so Thea and Ty are stepping in with a brief update and a roundup of noteworthy news articles. In the spirit of the season, we want to wish everybody a happy holidays, and remember: Trans joy triumphs ove…
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Episode 2 pt.2 - Talking Transparency w/Thea Ross
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On this continuation of the last episode, Melissa, Cody, and Thea start by talking about MTG’s blow up over Jasmine Crockett’s comments at “The importance of protecting female athletics and Title IX” hearing, and go on to discuss the new film Lady Ballers, and an article from the Washington Examiner about Florida’s horrible laws and practices leadi…
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Episode 2 -Talking Transparency w/ Thea Ross
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Now with improved Audio! Hosted By Cody Conner, Melissa Lukeson and Thea Ross. Brought to you by the Calos Coalition, a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit - Donate and support Trans Joy @ www.caloscoalition.com Like, Follow and Subscribe @talkingtransparency Across Socials or visit: https://www.patreon.com/TalkingTransparency linktr.ee/talkingtrans --- T…
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Episode 1 - Talking Transparently w/ Kim & Mick
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Hosted By Cody Conner and Melissa Lukeson. Brought to you by the Calos Coalition, a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit - Donate and support Trans Joy @ www.caloscoalition.com Like, Follow and Subscribe @talkingtransparency Across Socials or visit: https://www.patreon.com/TalkingTransparency linktr.ee/talkingtrans --- Today's Episode - Talking Transparent…
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Transparency Talk with Nikkia Preval - Episode 4: The List. Are your expectations in a potential mate getting out of hand? Have you ever stopped to consider if you measure up to the things you have on that list? Join me on this thought-provoking episode as I delves into the topic of creating a list of the things you're looking for in a partner. In …
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Introducing the latest episode of Transparency Talk w/ Nikkia Preval Podcast: "Circle of Friends." Have you ever stopped to consider the impact that your friends have on your life? Are they catalysts for growth, support, and positivity? Or do they unknowingly bring unnecessary drama and negativity into your world? In this thought-provoking episode,…
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Transparency Talk with Nikkia Preval! 🎧 In this week's episode, I delve into an empowering topic: "DO it anyway." 💪 Don't let fear hold you back from embracing life's incredible opportunities. Whether you're trembling with uncertainty or doubts, push forward and DO it anyway! 🚀 Join host Nikkia Preval and her inspiring guests as they share their pe…
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In this episode, "Victim or Villain," I confront the complex narratives that often surround those in positions of power. Nikkia brings together diverse perspectives to challenge conventional wisdom and explore the fine line between victimhood and villainy. Transparency Talk provides a platform for honest conversations and deep dives into real-life …
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learning how to see yourself in your own reflection can increase self-compassion, aid stress management, and improve relationships and emotional resilience. In this episode, I talk about some of the concepts of self-care and personal growth to help you start the journey of letting go of what no longer serves you. Setting your own Terms and conditio…
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As I think back to over thirty years ago, I couldn't have imagined being where I am today. How I wish this one would have been grasped early, and I am still learning daily to understand it. This letter is a personal and transparent insight into Nikkia and journey through life as a 15-year-old girl Although I now look back with gratitude for the exp…
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How do you forgive someone of a deep hurt - when an apology is never actually given? Do we even have to forgive the person? And if we do forgive, do we have to reconcile? If you’re walking around with resentment from a hurtful conversation or action, this episode is for you, friend. Tune in as Nikkia walks through the first step of forgiveness, how…
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I’m Not One Of Your Little Friends” Translation: I’m your mother, not your friend. Respect me as such. In this episode, Nikkia will once again speak on setting boundaries with your children. Setting boundaries is a difficult thing, especially when you have to do so with the ones you love. Setting boundaries with kids is even harder because when the…
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What does it mean to move in silence and why it is important Why is it important to move in silence? Making silent moves preserves what’s for you. Sharing your accomplishments is great and yes, not everyone is out to get you, but keep that in the back of your mind at all times. In this episode Nikkia will talk about keeping things to yourself and a…
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One thing is certain in these modern times of ours. Rushing. We rush to do everything from getting information to eating, to making a judgement, to even adulting. Nobody even wants to be a kid anymore. Have you ever noticed how rushing implies a feeling of lack? It is never easy to wait for good things? Have you ever got ahead of yourself? This epi…
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Feeling overwhelmed by the constant stream of texts, emails and nonstop push notifications? It might be time to cut back on your phone time with a digital detox. No matter your reasoning—stress, sadness or simply because you want to challenge yourself—a digital detox will prove beneficial for your brain and body. Getting some “me” time doesn’t come…
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The ending of a significant piece of one's life — a relationship, job, stage of life, or way of thinking — may be difficult and even painful for many of us. Something that you once counted on as very important to your life is over and done. Closure means finality; a letting go of what once was. Finding closure implies a complete acceptance of what …
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We all have times when we struggle to prioritise our emotional needs, and it can leave us physically and emotionally exhausted, unable to sleep well, and feeling irritable. What is an emotional backpack? Picture yourself carrying around an invisible backpack, every day. Inside that backpack are all of your life’s experiences. Some of these items ar…
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If you've been married for more than five minutes, you know that marriage isn't all long-stemmed roses and heart-eye emojis. Marriages that stand strong under pressure take work—and lots of it. Nikkia will now look through the binoculars of the marriage experience. The honeymoon is over; what next? You planned for the wedding but did you take the t…
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Hey, everyone. I am back and we are in Season 2 Episode 1. I am excited about the new season. If you are new to the podcast, be sure to check out the prior episodes. All meaningful and lasting change starts on the inside and works its way out. In the season 2 opener I will discuss life and relationships needing to change and how looking within at t…
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with a mini check in with each other, leading into our topic for this episode: Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable-Domestic Violence. We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Remember your light is just as important as anyone else's! You matter!…
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with our topic for this weeks episode: Living With The Familiar-Family Ties. We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Remember your light is just as important as anyone else's! You matter! Welcome to Transparency Talk Podcast ™️--- Support this podcast…
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with our topic for this episode: Running from the truth because it's painful. We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Welcome to Transparency Talk --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transparentcytalk/support…
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Just a quick note to say thank you to my listeners who listened to Season 1 of Transparency Talk w/ Nikkia Preval. I'll be taking a short break to recharge and come back with a BIGGER and BETTER Season 2.In the meantime, follow me on Instagram Transparency_Talk and remember to keep it Transparent. In this episode Nikkia will addresses the importanc…
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with our topic: Have you ever been comfortable with Abuse? Leading into a Hot Topic. We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Welcome to Transparency Talk --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transparentcytalk/support…
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The ways in which we talk about masculinity are constantly changing. Masculinity itself is changing too--slowly, and for the better. But are you still prepetuating sexist values in your household? Are you holding your boys accountable? Are you unhealthy suppressing their emotions because of how you were raised? How are you teaching your daughters t…
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with some Hot Topics (leading into) Our topic for this episode: Are you standing by or stepping in? We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Welcome to Transparency Talk --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/transparentcytal…
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What is the Domino Effect? The Domino Effect states that when you make a change to one behavior it will activate a chain reaction and cause a shift in related behaviors as well. I am calling this episode The Domino Effect because I am going to walk you through the areas of your life that affect everything else. And you know what? It all starts with…
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Separating from dysfunction and toxicity doesn't mean you haven't healed
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Welcome back thank you for tuning in. On this episode we are starting off with Dashanna- “shayonpurpose” life update (leading into) Our topic for this episode: Separating from dysfunction and toxicity doesn't mean you haven't healed⁉️ We explore what we have encountered and lay it out on the table. Welcome to Transparency Talk --- Support this podc…
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