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I'm Dee Gupta, a Inner Bliss coach who specializes in helping people get to a place where they can love their lives no matter what circumstances they are in, through a fun, easy and flowing way of life instead of feeling like they are pushing a boulder up a hill. I speak not just about peace, which is boring, but bliss and ecstacy - true, deep, profound love and joy.
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Ride shotgun with Ford CEO Jim Farley as he talks to some of his favorite people about what they drive and what drives them to succeed. New episodes released every Wednesday.
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Reclaim your personal power by changing your goals - 24.07.19 Set your goals to be big and not dependent on what other people do, but on who you become. For example, don't set your goal to be - I will make $10k next month from my business, but instead set it to be, I will become the person that will inspire people around me and create beautiful rel…
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If you want to help people, don't help them with advice, love them as they are instead - 24.07.18
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If you want to help people, don't help them with advice, love them as they are instead - 24.07.18 Hi everyone, in this video I want to dive deep into the concept of advice giving and its deeper implications. Recently, I've been reflecting on the principles of the Alcoholics Anonymous 12-step program, which emphasizes the importance of love and conn…
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Surrender and be happy - 24.07.17 Hello everyone! In this video, I want to talk to you about the difficult yet essential act of surrender. It's challenging but necessary and incredibly beautifully life-giving. Rejection as Protection: Rejection often serves as protection and can be a hidden blessing. Personal experiences: Times when I faced rejecti…
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Raise your standards and have compassion for those who trigger you - 24.07.16 You have in your life what you decide you are okay with. Whatever you are not okay with, you will let flow away from your life. You do that all the time, but you do not see you are doing that at the edge of who you are. Raise your standards. Also, have compassion for thos…
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Emotional and addiction healing - 24.07.15 This is a deepening of the previous video about the brilliance of the AA program. The most basic need of any human being is to be loved and to love. I'm going to be so bold as to say that almost all human problems, fears, traumas, or what I call anarthas, come from this fear that I am not loved, and even m…
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The brilliance of the AA 12 step program - no advice, addresses the root cause! 24.07.12 The most basic need of any human being is to be loved and to love. I'm going to be so bold as to say that almost all human problems, fears, traumas, or what I call anarthas, come from this fear that I am not loved, and even more deeper, I am not lovable. Almost…
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Dwell on the problem - 24.07.11 Dwell on the problem a lot more time than you may be used to, and admit that you have a problem and that you need help to fix it. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUUyVb8Nv-Pp55URquPW-NUxw1ny2GTon This is my page to sign up for coaching. http…
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Give people what they ask for, not what you think they need - 24.07.10 We may feel like jumping in and giving advice because we feel that we know the solution to people's problems. But what works wonders for people is simply being listened to, being heard, and knowing that the person is there for us no matter what. Listen reflectively, mirror back …
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Feel Loved: Shift Focus from Self to Service - 24.07.09 When you're feeling insecure about something, find deep joy by helping others and thinking of how to help someone else. Summary of talk: 1. Mindfulness and Positive Thinking: * Constant self-awareness and thought monitoring * Redirect negative thoughts to positive affirmations * Replace negati…
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Choosing Depth Over Breadth: The Key to True Mastery - 24.07.08 It is a lot more glamorous to tell people that you listened to so many lectures this month or I read so many books this tear. It is much more humbling to say I only read one book but I read it many times. People might fake humility and say, I am a slow learner so I need to read it many…
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But hooooow do we raise our standards? 24.07.03 Yes I know that I have limiting identities based on limiting beliefs that don't serve me, I've known that for years and decades, but hoooooow do I raise my standards? What do I dooooooo? :) This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUU…
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What would xyz do? 24.07.02 When you have an identity that does not serve you, for example, mine has been that I'm not hard working, find a person who embodies the identity you would like, and channel that person all day long. What would this hard working person do? For me it is Arjun, the character in the Bhagvad Gita. This is my youtube channel l…
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True vulnerability and meeting of hearts - 24.07.01 Vulnerability is the other side of humility. It is the expression of humility to the other person. When done safely, in a relationship you want to build trust in, it leads to a much deeper and more genuine meeting of the hearts and relationships that are meaningful and fulfilling. This is my youtu…
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Achieve freedom from resentment - 24.06.27 Resentment is about wanting the other person to tell us we are worthy and therefore lovable because we ourselves don't feel it. When the other person doesn't come through with that, then we feel resentful. How do we manage it? By building our relationship with God, which is not as impossible as we may thin…
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Deep humility leading to deep love - 24.06.26 Exploring the depths of humility that lead to true, deep love for God and for other human beings. What does humility mean in the context of our day to day life in a way that we can protect ourselves? This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?l…
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Embrace the worst case scenario - 24.06.25 Often it may seem on the surface that you are very deeply willing to fail fast, fail frequently, celebrate failures. But like me, you may be very deeply afraid of failure and therefore may be blocking yourself from truly trying. One hack to get around that is to think of the worst case scenario, in my case…
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Anger - the ego response to someone else's actions - 24.06.24 When we are not convinced of our own self worth, or of the gifts that God has given us, then we want someone else to convince us that we are worthy. When they don't do it, our ego flares up and we become angry as a means to try to force someone else to convince us of our self worth. Beca…
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Deepening - Be unshakeable like a mountain no matter the season - 24.06.23 This is a deepening of yesterday's video, explaining what being unshakeable means. Does it mean that we are perfect in our consistency and actions? Or does it mean that even if we fall, and even if we fall for years, we keep our faith unshakeable, that we will figure it out …
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Be unshakeable like a mountain no matter the season - 24.06.22 Be like a mountain. When it is winter it will become dry and barren and brown and not pretty. When it is the rainy season it will become clean and fresh and lush and green. But the mountain does not budge an inch. It is unshakeable and unmovable. Be like the mountain in your resilience …
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Take full responsibility - request God for the consequences of your actions - 24.06.21 If our attitude changes from wanting to be forgiven for our mistakes so we don't face the consequences of our actions, then we will be functioning through life in a different way. If, instead, we choose to not only be okay for our consequences, and actually be gr…
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Make small believable mindset shifts - 24.06.20 When you're feeling hopeless about something, find a thought that is the easiest to believe, take it just a notch down, rather than making big sweeping statements. Once that feels easy, take it another notch. Make small, believable changes in your mindset in the right direction. This is my youtube cha…
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Compassion for a persons insecurities instead of getting triggered - 24.06.19 If a person says something and you feel hurt, understand where my side of the story comes from. Why am I getting hurt? Because I feel uncared for and unloved? But what if the person's actions or words have nothing to do with me, and everything to do with their childhood o…
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What shapes your current life and how to grow into what you want - 24.06.18 There are two key aspects as to what shapes your current life. One of them is what you value. This is determined by what you have seen around you growling up, to some extent, as well as your fears and karma and choices in your past lives. Instead of calling it childhood tra…
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An open discussion on thinking vs listening - 24.06.17 This video is an open discussion in my mind about how to feed the mind and increase the vibration of the mind and therefore the heart, by listening to lectures r podcasts, vs allowing yourself time to think and process and apply it to your life. This is my youtube channel link if you want to se…
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Deepening humility - 24.06.16 Deepening humility to allow yourself to deeply accept where you are, your flaws, and your negative thoughts and emotions, so you can then start to shift out of them. Confidence is about self acceptance. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUUyVb8N…
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What identity have you been trying to achieve things as - 24.06.14 If, to give an extreme example, you say you've been trying to shift things for 50 years and you've not been able to shift it and you're feeling dejected, the question is, what is the identity you've been trying to shift things as? As the person who says, I am not the kind of person …
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A deeper glimpse into taking responsibility for our lives - 24.06.13 This video is about going deeper into taking responsibility for our lives. Understanding that when we feel resentment towards someone else, it is because somewhere we are not taking responsibility for our lives. We may be doing a lot, spending many hours every day on what we want,…
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Raise your vibration instead of jumping to action - 24.06.12 When you want to solve a problem, say you want to wake up early, one way is to set alarms and be disciplined. The better way is to raise your vibration instead of just jumping to action. Why do you want to wake up early? To exercise maybe? To read something uplifting? Then watch videos th…
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Being aware of being gaslighted - 24.06.11 Many times we take on what other people say we can or cannot do. Sometimes we take it on because we believe them, sometimes we fight back with them, they may even apologize, but somehow it penetrates into us and weakens us. Sometimes people may end relationships by ghosting us or ending abruptly without te…
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The power of ruminating - 24.06.10 Think about and ruminate on things you want - this might be one of the most common cliches you've ever heard. But there's immense strength in it. If you're not able to think about the things you want, maybe you're not as passionate about it as you may think you are. Or you may just need an immense amount of practi…
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Denial vs surrender. 24.06.08 How do you tell whether you're in denial or surrender, when both feel like dejection when things don't go your way? Denial makes you feel weak, like, nothing ever works for me. Surrender, even though you feel a little weak and dejected in the moment, has the element of, even though this didn't work, it doesn't matter. …
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Transform your mundane life into a sacred one - 24.06.07 Is your mind your friend or your enemy? Are you always looking at what's not working? Or at what's incredibly insanely beautiful, in your life? Transform every day regular and painful moments into sacred moments by training your mind to see the sacredness in your life rather than the mundane.…
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How to manifest guilt free from a spiritual pov - 24.06.06 This is a very powerful video about becoming very clear about what your eternal goals are and how to live in this material world based on what your eternal goals are. In the spiritual world the idea is about loving God vs wanting anything from anyone, including wanting things from God that …
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Build yourself up so giving feels more joyful than receiving - 24.06.05 Have the goal to build yourself up so you can have relationships with people where giving feels more joyful than receiving. And accept yourself for where you are right now, where you need to receive in order to feel stable. But have the clear goal of wanting to be of service to…
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Keep at it relentlessly even if it takes many decades - 24.06.04 Even if you've done an immense amount of work on yourself over many decades, and you feel like there is something wrong with you or nothing ever works for you, keep trusting that the right thing will click at the right time. Examples I have given: I didn't manage to make any anchor po…
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Two different ways to plan our lives - 24.06.03 There are two ways I have to plan my life. One is to have daily habit tasks that fill a lot of my day, and then fill the rest of the day with whatever feels right in the moment. What is the most difficult task I can do right now that I have the courage to do? The second way is to have a timetable. I'l…
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Imagine - what if - scenarios to shift out of victim mode - 24.06.01 When you're feeling victim - nothing ever works for me, etc, try to imagine - what is the best case solution for this problem? What if that solution works out? What would (think of the person you admire the most) do in this situation? Borrow their identity for a moment if the answ…
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Actively look for how the pain is helping you release your fears - 24.05.31 When you're in the throws of pain, look for a moment of clarity where you can actually feel this pain helping you release the underlying fear. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUUyVb8Nv-Pp55URquPW-N…
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Are you anxious attachment style, if so, watch this - 24.05.23 This is a guide for the anxious attachment styles to understand when they are seeking approval from an avoidant, and how to catch yourself doing that and break that cycle. It is also a guide for how an avoidant can work towards being more secure, and what a secure person looks like. Thi…
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Respect people by understanding their quirks have nothing to do with you - 24.05.22 When we understand, truly understand, that the actions of other people have nothing to do with you, and you are able to put your ego aside, then you can unlock respecting people at the highest levels, no matter what they do. This is an insanely powerful concept that…
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Relentlessly - Remember this word - 24.05.20 Whatever it is you're trying to do, remember this word relentlessly. Go after it, whether it is trying to control your mind by engaging it in a specific thing that you want or removing the thoughts you don't want, whether it is your health, whether it is trying to learn a new skill or business, go after …
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Boundaries - Bryon Katie - Loving what is - 24.05.18 How to set boundaries in a very effective way, without getting angry and without reacting or being judgmental. Pull out the deepest kindness from within your heart and build relationships through boundaries instead of breaking them or building resentment. This is an example from Byron Katie's boo…
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Identity the limits of your limiting beliefs to shift them - 24.05.17 When we have limiting beliefs, we usually have specific limits to what we think we can do. If we identify what our limits are, we can choose to extend those limits and do a lot more. Along with increasing our limits, we can understand that our actions are in our control and not t…
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Limiting belief - I'm not growing fast enough - 24.05.16 Addictions and comparisons can come in the guise of seemingly positive behaviors. Be careful and keep giving yourself breaks if you feel you might be getting addicted. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUUyVb8Nv-Pp55UR…
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Befriending the wild mind - 24.05.15 This is a deepening conversation of how when the mind keeps wanting to say - but nothing ever works for me! You befriend the mind and talk to it gently but firmly and redirect the attention on next steps instead of lamenting the past. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://…
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Shift from victim to empowered - 24.05.14 This is a practical way to shift out of victim mode to feeling empowered. Your mindset is 99% of your results, action is very important but it is only 1%. Who are are when you do something, what you think about, is far more important than what you do. So shift your mindset. This is my youtube channel link i…
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Living with intention - practical example - 24.05.13 This is an example of how to take a situation where you are feeling bad about a pattern you have and how to work towards turning it around so you feel amazing about it and thus make progress in my life much faster. This is my youtube channel link if you want to see the video version. https://www.…
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Get to moments of decision - surrender vs control - 24.05.10 This is a deepening talk from yesterday's talk on how to shift out of limiting identities and beliefs. If I feel - I'm too emotionally weak to do difficult things, I can ask myself - is there any evidence of a single incident in my life where I have successfully done a difficult thing? If…
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Get to moments of decision - surrender vs control - 24.05.10 I've been on a journey to understand what surrender means and what giving up control means. I think I uncovered a piece of it, which has helped me get to a moment of decision, which has completely changed my life. Sharing that with you in case it helps you. This is my youtube channel link…
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As the youngest brother in a family of storytellers, Matthew McConaughey had to hone his storytelling craft in order to hold his own at the dinner table. He regales Jim with stories of the role of driving in his life: an ill-advised high school trade of his pick-up truck for a sports car; a motorcycle trip through Europe on borrowed bikes; and the …
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