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What happens when you ask a world traveler, a life-coach, a one-woman-show-stopper and (finally) sober woman from the South what she thinks about life? You get “Now That You Ask.” A podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Akasha Halsey is a woman who after seventy-five years on this planet, is ready to have her say! The podcasts are short (the time it takes to down a cup of coffee) and while they will often make you smile, they wil ...
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"The past, present, and future walk into a bar. It was tense." It's so interesting to me how a joke like this prompts me to think about how these three periods interact within my life. You just never know what will spark reflection I guess. Yet here I am pondering the significance and interconnection of past memories, future hopes, and the importan…
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Do you ever ponder the fleeting nature of existence? I sure do. Throughout different stages of my life—from my thirties to my seventies—I grapple with the realization that time passes more quickly than expected, like a shadow approaching a sunset. For this reason, I like to focus on cultivating kindness and discernment in my choices. I also strive …
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I am still struggling with lingering COVID symptoms and it is really taking an emotional toll on me. Feeling exhausted, in pain, and a bit depressed, I come across an inspiring quote by Maya Angelou that prompts a transformative shift from self-pity to a feeling of openness and gratitude. This episode explores how a simple message can uplift our sp…
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I admit I have an inclination towards whining about minor discomforts. Not only that, I tend to downplay serious issues. In this episode, I share about my experience with COVID-19, detailing the symptoms and frustrations of being sick and isolated. And yet despite the misery, I find small moments of relief and realization about my body's resilience…
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The difference between hurried procrastination and trusting that things will be accomplished in good time is a matter of quieting the mind, trusting the process, and not allowing the overwhelming number of tasks there are in a day to induce anxiety. While it sounds simple enough, is not always an easy endeavor. We humans like to complicate things. …
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This episode features two short pieces reflecting on the my adventurous life and evolving sense of beauty. Inspired by a childhood admiration for fearless characters like Nancy Drew and the free spirit of wild horses, I share experiences of traveling and exploring diverse cultures in the Middle East during the 70s and 80s. Despite not viewing mysel…
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On this poignant Friday the 13th, I find myself consumed by a sense of melancholy. Despite years of therapy, the sadness resurfaces, prompting me to look back on past regrets and unfulfilled desires. Yet, amidst the heaviness, I recognize the countless blessings and dreams I have realized, offering immense satisfaction and fulfillment. I am learnin…
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In this episode, I share my journey of landing my first "real" job and navigating the challenges of working as a woman in the 1970s South. From a nerve-racking typewriter test to becoming a successful TV ad buyer for the Coca Cola account, I recount the obstacles I faced, including an awkward lunch meeting and a difficult medical emergency. With de…
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Synchronicity led me to create a one woman show titled 'Made of Cotton.' From the initial suggestion in a writing class to meeting a director by chance, and ultimately performing on stage, I experienced the challenges, surprises, and joys of stepping out of my comfort zone. This transformative experience not only boosted my confidence but also help…
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I have a deep-rooted love for Alabama football, a tradition handed down from my daddy (who would have celebrated his 104th birthday today). Growing up in the South, Saturdays were marked by football gatherings, food, and camaraderie. Listen as I share fond memories of these gatherings, the joy and anguish of being an Alabama fan, and how this passi…
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As in Rumi's words "Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray." I can attest that my strange pulls have lead me through various phases in life, each with their own unique joys and lessons. In this episode, I reflect on the shifts in my passions and how they have shaped my path towards co…
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The universe often throws unexpected changes our way, disrupting our plans and shaking our expectations. These moments have shaped my perspective on trust and adaptability and I've learned to view these disruptions as opportunities for growth and discovery. One of the bigger lessons I've learned is that we must let go of rigid expectations and rema…
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Like many people of the world, I recently watched a bit of the Olympics and found myself somewhat awestruck. After seeing those inspiring athletes and, believe it nor not, as a result of my own experience working with a trainer at the gym, I am reminded of the significance of perseverance and recalibration in achieving fitness goals. There is great…
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It is not uncommon in life to have mixed emotions brought by unexpected events both joyful and sorrowful. While I realize change is inevitable, I also know that embracing our feelings and finding strength and gratitude in the face of impermanence is a crucial part of being alive. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from de…
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Finding and sharing our unique gifts freely, for the pure joy it, is one of the best things in life. In this episode, I reflect the importance of what we scatter in life. From cooking for friends to surprising a stranger with an unexpected gift, these acts have brought immense joy to both others and myself. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks …
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I like to explore various interpretations of light, from the physical illumination of morning and evening to the metaphorical guidance it provides in my life. And if you're open to it, I highly encourage you also embrace the universe's light in all its forms as a source of fun, fulfillment, and personal growth. Now That You Ask is a podcast that lo…
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I have a deep connection with a specific oak tree near my home. Despite its inaccessibility across a creek, I regularly visit this stately tree, which offers me comfort and solace. This tree, standing tall through the years, has become a touchstone of peace and strength in my life, offering a unique and intimate form of reassurance. Now That You As…
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I love a good quote. Quotes provide me with wisdom and humor for navigating life. In this episode, I share a few of my favorite quotes and reflections on the importance of manners, uniqueness, and the balance between desire and practicality. What is your favorite quote? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to des…
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Food is one way I stay anchored to my sense of home, despite living in California. A recent visit to a barbecue restaurant rekindled memories of authentic Southern fish and hush puppies, and invoked nostalgia for the tastes of my childhood. From the unique flavor of fried catfish to the treasured tradition of homemade dishes during winter holidays,…
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I am struggling with getting older. Perhaps you can relate? These days physical limitations along with an erosion of patience have really impacted my daily life and my ability to enjoy activities. Travel has become a challenge, and finding comfort has shifted from exploring new places to staying home. Lately, I find comfort in the stability and pea…
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Maintaining a sense of humor and a positive outlook can help alleviate anxiety over everyday forgetfulness and mishaps, especially as we age. From misplacing objects to embracing overcooked food, I share how finding the silver lining in life's little challenges keeps my spirits up and contributes to a more fulfilling life. Now That You Ask is a pod…
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I recently visited Homeboy Industries, the world's largest gang rehabilitation and reentry program. It was a deeply impactful experience journeying through their facilities in downtown Los Angeles and seeing firsthand the remarkable transformations and supportive atmosphere cultivated by Father Gregory Boyle. From the exceptional service at Homegir…
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Keeping up with technology is a challenge, isn't it? Just when I think I am understanding the world of tech (and my iPhone), I'm blindsided by something new like artificial intelligence. I will get to the bottom of A.I. eventually but for now it has me stumped. Listen in as I reflect on the rapid pace of technological change and the importance of s…
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Highfalutin words have the uncanny ability to draw us in. They can serve both to educate and occasionally to obfuscate. My love for reading and sophisticated phrasing takes me through historical romances and even into the realms of vampire fiction when history becomes too bleak. Listen in as I muse on my fascination with words and the impact vocabu…
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Life has recently showered me with unexpected beauty and grace, with experiences that felt like pure gifts from the universe. From meaningful conversations with loved ones to spontaneous moments of connection and memory, each event has deepened my gratitude and love for the world around me. These beautiful occurrences have reminded me to savor each…
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Horse people are a community unto their own. My dear friend Nancy, a passionate horsewoman, is the one introduced me to the world of horses and riding about 20 years ago. It's quite remarkable how much there is to learn and master when it comes to riding and Nancy loved every aspect of it. Despite my initial apprehension towards horses due to a chi…
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Memorials are a beautiful way to honor and remember loved ones. They come in various forms like statues, gardens, or services, each holding a special place in our hearts. Attending a recent memorial service for a dear friend brought unexpected comfort and uplifted my spirits. Witnessing the love and memories shared by family members and friends pai…
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I find myself torn between conflicting aspects of my personality. Despite enjoying action-packed movies and occasionally feeling frustrated with others, I strive to be kind-hearted and helpful. I acknowledge the importance of self-preservation but also the joy of being of service to others when opportunities arise. At the end of the day, life's unp…
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As I navigate through the everyday nuisances that life presents, I find myself entangled in a web of frustrations that range from unexpected moisture on my body parts to the challenges of organization and memory. Join me on a reflective journey as I unravel the comedy of errors that make up my daily life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at…
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You've probably heard the expression, "They're doing doing the best they can with what they've got." In this episode, I find myself reflecting on the concept of doing my best and exploring the depths my values and traits. Through this exploration, I uncover aspects of myself that I often overlook. Acknowledging my strengths, I strive to be true to …
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I'm on a quest for stability in life. I'm starting by focusing on strengthening neglected muscles at the gym. From my ankles to my core, each part of my body presents its own unique challenges and victories. As I push myself to improve and grow stronger, I am also finding a deep sense of fulfillment and pride. Now That You Ask is a podcast that loo…
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I am a quitter. I never thought I would write those words but I find myself "quitting" things like being a strict follower of commitments and instead allowing myself the freedom to turn away from things that don't resonate with me. In this episode, I share experiences from my past, and my thoughts on the importance of honoring my inner voice and pr…
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I have a long-standing tradition of visiting the farmer's market, where I support hardworking farmers and enjoy the quality of their just-picked fruits and vegetables. There's Eddie and his exceptional fruit selection and then there's the market's corn booth, where the sweet corn reminds me of Alabama's produce. But I especially love "bossy produce…
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The names I give myself have evolved over time, from self-criticism to self-empowerment. Embracing solitude and self-care has been essential in helping me navigate through the self-doubt and writing has become a therapeutic outlet, allowing me to reflect on life experiences and cherish the journey towards self acceptance. At this stage of my life, …
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Laughter has had a profound impact in my life. It is a transformative force that uplifts spirits, strengthens friendships, and brings a sense of gratitude and lightness. I believe genuine laughter is vital in creating intimate connections and finding joy in life's unpredictable moments. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range …
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I find it amazing how quickly my mood can shift. From moments of anger and sadness to finding myself amidst a full-blown storm of emotions, I realize that change is inevitable and that I have the resilience to navigate through life's unexpected turns. By acknowledging my ability to adapt and grow, I learn to appreciate the journey of self-discovery…
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What do you do when you're feeling overwhelmed and disconnected? Seeking support, I recently opened up to a friend about my deepest fears and anxieties and I found solace in their listening without judgment. Embracing vulnerability, I discovered the power of self-acceptance and reaching out for help. This experience helped me navigate towards self-…
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What daily conveniences are you most grateful for? I can think of plenty. From hot water and coffee to light and air-conditioning, each convenience enhances my daily experiences and adds to my gratitude. There was a time when maybe I couldn't say as much and that only makes me more grateful - for both my past experiences and how they've led me to w…
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My understanding of what it means to truly find where I belong is always evolving. In my relationships, career choices, and self-acceptance, the quest to find my place has been an enlightening journey and has lead me to fully embrace my unique quirks and qualities. These days, I celebrate the sense of contentment and fulfillment that comes with acc…
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I love finding a loophole and thinking that I can cheat the system just a little bit. Over the years, I've become quite good at identifying ways to do less and still achieve the same result. However, I've also learned that there are some areas where there are no loopholes. As I've grown older, finding loopholes has become more challenging, and the …
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I am deeply saddened by the sudden passing of my friend. Her death has left me grappling with the grief, questioning why her and why now. As I navigate through the hole her passing has left, I am confronted with the loneliness that we all may experience at some point in our lives. The truth that there is no certainty about what's next resonates wit…
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What happens when a baker is preparing for a colonoscopy and has to make do with jello and popsicles? Making the jello was easy however, eating the jello turned out to be a messy and challenging experience. Overall, the experience was unpredictable and unpleasant but it was an adventure nonetheless. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topic…
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As an Alabama football fan, I share the bittersweet emotions surrounding legendary coach, Nick Saban's retirement, and find myself reflecting on the impact he has made on the team and the fans. Through his philosophy of excellence and personal growth, Saban reminds us that happiness is not just about momentary pleasures or achievements, but about t…
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This year I spent Christmas with my adopted family. The house was beautifully decorated, with multiple trees, gingerbread houses, and adorable handmade gifts from the children. It was a wonderland filled with laughter and imagination. The highlight of the holiday was when the little girl in the family received a very special surprise present. The j…
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I love hot dogs. From the hot dogs served at baseball and football games to the ones from carts in New York City, I have a particular fondness for their flavor. And there is nothing quite like the unique satisfaction of having a hot dog handed over by someone at a game. Join me as I share my love for hot dogs and the significant role they play in m…
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As I contemplate the road ahead, I find motivation in the challenge of taking action and starting something new - specifically, in writing a book. I find the prospect quite intriguing. What will I learn about myself this time? I know I have a desire to be unique and resist conformity (surprise, surprise), as well as the need to begin before the uni…
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I see myself as a special kind of mystic, embracing the unexplainable mysteries of life. I believe a mystic possesses a strong sense of self, calmness, trust, curiosity, and acceptance. Through various experiences and moments of connection, I have glimpsed my mystical self and felt the vastness of being alive. Now That You Ask is a podcast that loo…
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Did you know that I was in a beauty contest? It's true. It was called the Maid of Cotton contest. It all started when my mother decided it would be a good experience for me to participate. Reluctantly, I agreed and went through the rigorous preparations for the contest. To my surprise, I won the first round and had to continue to the next level. Ho…
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Lately I've been asking myself "What is going on with me?" I am a little worried about myself to be honest. I have always loved the holidays, but this year I am really struggling with the social aspects. Of course, the pandemic shaped my perspective on solitude and I now delve into the joys and challenges of being alone, but what is going on with m…
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If you were born in the South, say, 50 to 60, 70 years ago, you were baptized with an unquenchable love for college football. In this episode, I share my personal story of growing up in Alabama and being immersed in the passionate world of college football fandom. From the fierce rivalry between Alabama and Auburn to the exciting game-day parties w…
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