Drew and Daniel realised that these could be perceived as troubling times, finding identity amidst angst about race, mixed race, duel heritage, the vast array of descriptions we have developed for not offending every category of racial background is confusing. Fitting in is important and things don’t always go to plan. Members of our family, unbeknownst to us, were having their own identity crisis with regards to exactly where they fitted in. Too dark? Too light? Too mixed to have a voice, w ...
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#08 - Interview with Caroline Dyer - Given up for adoption to white parents wasn't without its challenges but the confusion was from outsiders, rather than at home.
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The stigma attached to having a mixed-race child caused Caroline’s maternal mother to give her for adoption at only a few months old. Her adoptive parents endured being snubbed by neighbours, confused as to why they hadn’t adopted a white baby. Nonetheless, Caroline’s parents couldn’t have been more loving and offered support and encouragement in h…
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#07 - Dr Nalishebo Elliott - Growing up in Zambia to Becoming The First Woman Of Colour To Win Miss World Austrialia 1999 - But Not Without Racial Prejudices
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Born a twin in Zambia to an African mother and an Australian father, Nalishebo and her siblings moved with their father to The Northern Territory, Australia aged 13. Dealing with the emotional tear from their mother 7000 miles away, they had to endure racial suffering in the Australian outback. But amidst the emotional pain and suffering, she carve…
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We’d thought we’d just summarise briefly the last 5 episodes and bring to a close the family season of the race dilemma. Although closure is not something that is written in stone, we hope the story may continue... But for now, we will broaden the conversation out further afield to people outside the family who have shown an interest in sharing the…
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#05 - The Race Dilemma - Cousin Esther Hallman shares her story of growing up with a Pakistani father and German mother
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In this episode, we speak with our first cousin Esther Hallman. Of Pakistani and German heritage, growing up in a suburb of west London, she didn’t always find it easy to fit in a particular group…a result of a mixed heritage background or simply her nature? Please email us @ theracedilemmapodcast@gmail.com to be featured on a future episode. If yo…
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#04 - The Race Dilemma - Stuart Morrison shares what it was like growing up with his Anglo Indian heritage without obviously looking Anglo Indian
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The story continues with another family member, this time with our cousin Stuart Morrison and although of Anglo Indian heritage, Stuart’s fair skin colour never left him in doubt about his very proud background but soon realised that the confusion was with other people. Please send an email to theracedilemmapodcast@gmail.com if you would like to be…
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#03 - Race Dilemma - Abel Sloane gives his take on growing up with a mixed heritage and shares some interesting insights about perceptions of people of colour in today’s society.
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This episode is a conversation with Daniel's son Abel, and although only two years younger, his appearance is different to his sister Florence… he has an olive skin tone and brown curly hair and according to his sister, he has a more exotic look about him. This is the first time he’s ever expressed an interest in voicing his opinion on his mixed he…
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#02 - Race Dilemma - Florence Sloane speaks about growing up looking white on the outside but feeling brown on the inside.
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The catalyst for this podcast, Daniel's daughter Florence Sloane, tells her story of how being white on the outside left her feeling unqualified to contribute to conversations about racism, even though close members of her family had experienced it first hand. This presented a race dilemma for her... Growing up she thought she looked Asian only to …
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#01 - Introduction - Drew and Daniel explore their first experiences of being made to feel racially different.
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In the first episode, we give a brief insight into one or two of our experiences in which racism made a big impact on us - our first realisation that we were in fact of a mixed background and that people judged us on our skin colour, left us a little confused about where we fitted in, mainly due to the way in which we were perceived by others.…
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