“We don't want Idaho to have a bad reputation. This is our home state. We love our home state. It's beautiful. We pride ourselves on our nature. We pride ourselves on our wildlife. And instead, we are continuing to do things that are… that are sickening.” - Ella Driever In 1995, wolves were reintroduced to central Idaho, and in 2003 a Boise High school called Timberline officially adopted a local wolf pack. Throughout the 2000, students went on wolf tracking trips and in their wolf packs range. But in 2021, Idaho's legislature passed Senate Bill 1211, 1211 allows Idaho hunters to obtain an unlimited number of wolf tags, and it also allows Idaho's Department of Fish and Game to use taxpayer dollars to pay private contractors to kill wolves. That means bounties on wolves, including on public lands. And in 2021, the Idaho Fish and Game Commission expanded the wolf hunting season and hunting and trapping methods. So it's not too surprising to learn that also in 2021, the Timberline pack disappeared. The students, the ones that cared about wolves, at least, were devastated. Last summer I went to D.C. with some of the Species Unite team for a wolf rally on Capitol Hill. While I was there, two young women gave a talk about what happened at Timberline in 2021. Their names are Ella Driver and Sneha Sharma. They both graduated from Timberline High School and were there when their wolf pack disappeared. Please, listen and share.…
Therapist, Mom, and psychology teacher, Eden Hyder brings a candid, caring perspective to relationships, parenting, and mental health through her podcast, Inside Out. Through educational and therapeutic episodes mixed in with her own stories from the day to day, Eden invites us into all the things that matter most: ourselves, our relationships, and our kids. She speaks as a therapist, friend, wife, daughter, and mother, not hiding her imperfections and inviting others into theirs. Inside Out ...
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Have you ever wondered why we love people who hurt us or treat us badly? Eden answers this question from an attachment perspective. We also so desperately want to do right by our kids, not mess them up, or damage the parent-child relationship. Knowing what to do and how to do it during high stress moments can be challenging, particularly if you ar…
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Michael and Eden add on to the last episode about relationships as they enter a conversation on parenting. They discuss their differences, struggles and strengths as anxious and avoidant attached. Through relatable stories, Eden and Michael share about times of feeling disconnected from their kiddos (rupture), the struggle and importance of reconne…
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Michael & Eden: How an Avoidant and Anxiously-Attached Couple Survive Conflict & Build Intimacy
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Eden dives into a more personal conversation with her husband, business partner and fellow therapist, Michael Hyder. Eden identifies as an Anxiously-Attached wife partnering with Michael, an avoidant-attached husband. Michael is a Licensed Professional Counselor, a licensed Supervisor and EMDR Certified Trauma Specialist who utilizes EMDR, Internal…
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After last week’s episode focused on the parents, this week Eden looks at insecurely attached kids. She addresses how each style presents in a toddler, elementary-aged child, and teen. She also suggests ways that we, as parents, can support our kids with a more secure attachment. For more on mental health, relationships, and parenting, follow me on…
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Eden jumps into the topic of parenting with a couple key notes: 1) that insecurely attached parents are at higher risk for parenting struggles which makes doing this attachment work yourself all the more impactful, and 2) that as parents, we don’t have to be perfect — that our imperfect parenting can actually benefit our children. She then gives ex…
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As adults, we have the bad habit of shutting down a child’s process, and our inner child is no exception. Eden takes us through the 3 dimensions of attuning to your inner and outer child. Attunement is how we create safety in relationship so we can create positive, secure connection. Awareness, empathy, and responsiveness allow us as parents (to ou…
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Ever wonder where those negative thoughts and beliefs come from? Some of it may come from the quality of our attachment relationship. Eden shows us how attachment shapes those beliefs about ourselves and the world. Eden takes us backwards, from adulthood into childhood, to figure out what those beliefs are and how they functioned. She helps us to u…
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Eden walks us through 5 core attachment needs that we all have from birth: Safety, Security, Comfort, Relief and Validation. What is it to feel safe and secure in an attachment relationship? How does the need for validation from your attachment figure as an infant impact life as an adult? For more on this episode and more on attachment between epis…
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Eden builds on the last episode by breaking down the four attachment styles: Secure, Ambivalent, Avoidant, and Disorganized. She gives us examples of what each looks like in infants and toddlers and how each style may lend to certain challenges. Eden shares about the attachment process with her 5 month old puppy and applies these styles to puppy tr…
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Eden Hyder gives us a basic understanding of what attachment is, the role that safety plays in attachment, and how secure attachments vary from insecure attachments. She helps us to see how our attachment to a parent in childhood can impact our relationships and ourselves later on in life. For more on this episode and more on attachment between epi…
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Join Eden Hyder for the first Season of Attached Enough, as she brings her experience as a therapist, boss, wife, daughter, mother, friend and talks openly about learning to understand and love yourself and communicating your needs as you work towards building meaningful relationships. Eden walks us through the basics of attachment and how attachme…
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Relationships can be the most painful and most fulfilling part of life. For any of you who have struggled with stubborn relational patterns, emotional reactivity, parenting your kids, growing intimate relationships, addiction, eating disorders, depression, anxiety — this podcast is for you. Join Eden Hyder for the first Season of Attached Enough, a…
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