School teaches us many things.. except to adult. Adulting is REALLY tough. There's no curriculum, sem breaks, or cheat sheets. We suddenly need to learn how to do well at our jobs, pay bills and and loans, care for aging parents, and stay in touch with our friends - all at the same time. If you're confused about how to handle money, relationships, …

People are waiting longer to get married, but in this episode, we found 3 who married in their early 20s. Hear from Brian, Nata and Mavis on whether marrying young is worth it, and if they ever regretted their choice!Por NGL People

With flexible work arrangement, and zoom lessons, is discipline still important in this day and age? Hear Zel, Nata and our 2 guests on extreme ends of the discipline spectrum share their stories (and struggles) with discipline, and how they have learnt that sometimes discipline isn't just for ourselves.…

In Singapore, 1 in 4 secondary school students experienced bullying. More than that, 1 in 4 turned out to be bullies themselves. It's either... you get bullied or you are the bully. Hear Erin and David bravely share their stories and shed light on what it's like to be bullied and how one of them became a bully eventually.…

Are our friends’ brutally honest opinions a source of anxiety, or the foundation of a deep relationship? In this episode, we discussed a range of how much honesty we expect to give and get in friendships, and the different factors that affect whether we "choose to say". Hear how brutally honest Daryl, Waikit, Zel and Nata will choose to be!…

Welcome to Part 2 of Carrie and Diya from The Freshman sharing their journey of (still) chasing their dreams! If you're a freelancer, artist, entrepreneur, or self-employed... this one is for you!Por NGL People

You thought about it. You took the leap. Now what? This goes out to all the freelancers, artists, entrepreneurs and self-employed... We know the path you are on is not a common one, but you are not alone! Hear from The Freshman, Carrie and Diya, winners of 绝对Superstar 2 on their journey of (still) chasing their dreams after 17 years!…

What does it feel like to have your whole life derailed at 25? Christina & Wesley both faced sudden changes to their lives and families when one of their parent suffered a sudden stroke. Adulting just became real. Hear them share vulnerably on how they deal with the accelerated responsibilities of care-taking and the loss of some dreams and hopes.…

Is overspending making you broke? With the ease of online shopping and cashless payments, overspending is an easy trap that we can easily and unknowingly fall into. Hear confessions from Keith and Ash on how they used to go from paycheck to paycheck, and how they learnt to stamp out overspending from their life.…

It's CNY soon! And more nerve-wrecking than the awkward questions is... the scary first meet-up with your partner's family. Hear from Horngjye, Francesca, Zel and Nata on how they survived, and how they helped their partner snag this. Listen to the end for bonus tips on what are some things you can do!…

Ever felt like you're constantly faking it? Are you anxious of being found out, or feeling like you do not deserve your success? You may be experiencing imposter syndrome, and you are not alone. 3 out of 4 Singaporeans experience feelings associated with imposter syndrome. Hear May Ann share how her Chinese teacher contributed to her struggle and h…

Are you ready to say bye to 2023? Join Natasha and Zelanie as they wrap up their 2023 (the good, the bad, and everything in-between) and what they're looking forward to in the new year. ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people Telegram - https://www.tinyurl.com/nglpeopletele #podc…

Losing your job can be earth shattering, especially at the beginning of your career. Even if you hate your job and were thinking of leaving anyway, it still hits you in the gut. The prospect of being unemployed is terrifying in this volatile economy. Yet getting retrenched may turn out to be an opportunity instead of a loss. Peida shares what it's …

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Ever wondered what really goes on in a guy's head? Or do you want to ask guys a few touchy questions but afraid of how they’ll react? Aaron and Meng Seng have spent 10 years in an all-guys school and they're here to answer your burning questions about guys. You're welcome! ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people/ TikTok - …

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Journeying with our loved ones in their mental health struggles can be frustrating and frightening. “What if they reject my help?” “What if I make things worse?” “What if I spiral too?” We want to help, but don’t know how. And sometimes, the overwhelming responsibility we feel can lead…

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Journeying with our loved ones in their mental health struggles can be frustrating and frightening. “What if they reject my help?” “What if I make things worse?” “What if I spiral too?” We want to help, but don’t know how. And sometimes, the overwhelming responsibility we feel can lead…

Adulting in our 20s and 30s can be... intense. There’s so many things to figure out, it’s easy to feel lost and overwhelmed. That’s why we started NGL People - to create a safe space for real and unfiltered conversations about things that matter. Be it family, relationships, career, or mental wellness, we're here to figure out life together. So if …

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Would you talk about your mental health with a loved one or medical professional? Most people, particularly guys, would not. 40% of men won't talk about their mental health. (Priory Group) Nearly 1 in 10 men experience some form of depression or anxiety, but less than half seek treatme…

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Would you talk about your mental health with a loved one or medical professional? Most people, particularly guys, would not. 40% of men won't talk about their mental health. (Priory Group) Nearly 1 in 10 men experience some form of depression or anxiety, but less than half seek treatme…

Welcome back to Part 2 on our episode on dealing with work stress! In this episode, Zelanie, Glenn and Elyse share about what they hold on to during the peak of their stressful work situations. Watch Part 1: https://youtu.be/p-PZA0DprZo ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people Tel…

While work takes up a third of our lives, the mental, physical and emotional load that comes with it is a whole lot more. How can we deal with long hours, difficult bosses/clients, and insane workload? In Part 1, Zelanie, Glenn and Elyse share how they survived their craziest work situations and tips on setting boundaries at work. Part 2 drops 31 A…

We love answering your questions so we decided to do more! 1) I'm 33 and still single. Am I hopeless? 2) Can I cohabit with my partner? 3) I don't have control over my life. What can I do? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1 ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people Tel…

We love answering your questions so we decided to do more! Part 1 of 2: 1) How can I stop comparing my life with others? 2) My friend passed away and I can't look at her photos anymore 3) How to help my friend who's desperate to get attached? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1 ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.…

Natasha and Zelanie sit down to answer more questions submitted by our viewers! Part 2 of 2: 1) How do I talk about my feelings with my parents? 2) How to help my friend who's desperate to get attached? 3) I'm not happy with my job. How? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1 ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.peopl…

Natasha and Zelanie sit down to answer questions submitted by our viewers! Part 1: 1) How do I deal with my partner's anger issues? 2) How do I know whether people will stay or walk out of my life? 3) Is relationship with others really important when they don't show up for me? Part 2 drops 2 weeks later. Stay tuned! ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.l…

How's your relationship with your Dad? Not everyone is close with their dads. Some of us just co-exist with them. Some of us are scared of their explosive temper. Some of us have never met our dad. If you've experienced waves of disappointment, rage, and grief at the loss of what you never had with your father, you're not alone. Samantha and Weiyea…

This is for anyone who's spent the last few years watching friends fall in love, get married, and even have babies, but never had that full invested, committed relationship experience for themselves. Is there something wrong with me? Am I being too picky? Is it just not my time? If you've ever had these thoughts, you're not alone! Jonk and Isaac sh…

From the time they gave birth, to when they raised us as infants and struggled with us in our teenage years, till they see us as adults, mothers are commonly celebrated as the ones who nurture us unconditionally and tirelessly. But what if your mum doesn't fit any of these descriptions? What if our mum isn't selfless, present, supportive, or nurtur…

MBTI, Enneagram, 'which Disney princess are you' - personality tests are really popular. They not only shed some insights and snapshots of what we're like and why, but they're also fun and a great conversation starter. But how accurate are these tests? Are they a poor excuse for bad behaviour? Would they trap us in our own judgement? Natasha, Bryan…

In today's hustle-culture era - juggling multiple life responsibilities, trying to score a promotion at work, and maintaining existing friendships - are we just too tired to make new friends? Can we really find new meaningful connections as we get older? Natasha, Alvin, and Haoyar share how their views and experiences of friendships evolve as they …

What do you do when someone you love has died? Losing someone important to you is one of the hardest things to experience in life. With it comes grief - a complex emotion that can engulf and overwhelm us, or sneak up on us when we least expect it. Natasha, Daryl, and Joyce share their journeys of unexpectedly losing a loved one to death. Hear how t…

Opinions vary in this great debate. Some would say it's absolutely possible. But too often we see friendship dynamics become complicated and romantic relationships tested because of ‘friends’. Why is it so difficult for guys and girls to be 'just friends'? Can opposite-gender friendships be truly platonic? Natasha, Wei Xuan, and Zelanie bare all in…

Work-life balance, fair pay, mentorship, value alignment. Today's youngest workers want it all; and are willing to walk away if they don't get it. Shunyi, a millennial who manages a team of Gen Zs, and Wesley, a university grad fresh in the workforce, share their views on whether Gen Z workers are truly entitled. ► Join the convo Instagram - https:…

Guys always say they don't "get" the female sex, especially after getting into a relationship with them. And it's not just about them saying one thing but meaning something else. "What do I say when she tells me she had a bad day?" "Why does she get upset when I try to help her solve her problems?" In this Valentine's Day Special, Daryl (who just g…

Beyond new outfits, feasting, and red packets, Chinese New Year (CNY) is where our family dynamics come to light. If we're close to family, we'll look forward to the extended bonding time. If we aren't, we're probably bracing ourselves for awkward or even tense situations. If my family isn't close and have nothing to say to each other, what's the p…

Christmas is generally seen as a time of joy and love. But for some people, it's a time of loneliness. Some wish they could be with family, but can’t. Some long for closer connections with friends. Some wish they had a special someone. Some are pressured by the need to be highly sociable and having to go for multiple gatherings. Natasha and guest s…

TW (Trigger Warning) // Weight, body types and shapes, and eating disorders Would you change anything about your body? In this era of influencer content, filters, and opinions from 'concerned' family members, it's easy to be a little insecure about how we look and what we weigh. Natasha, and our guests Cheryl and Ritchell, share their experiences w…

Romantic breakups are painful. But friendship breakups can hurt just as bad. No matter how many years or things you've gone through together, sometimes even the best of friendships can come to an end. What do you do when you drift or fall out with a good friend? In this episode, Dennis and Natasha bare their pain, grief, and reflections from naviga…

Let's face it - the world of online dating is pretty scary. We're faced with endless choices, ghosting, situationships, and many more. Has texting multiple people at once given you choice paralysis? Have dating misadventures dashed your hopes of authentic connections? In this episode, Dennis and Natasha talk to a special guest who has used dating a…

Can your job pay the bills but can't fund your high SES life? We can relate 😅 We aren't technically poor. But when money makes the world go round and when our friends earn and spend more than us, it's easy to 'feel' poor. Can you really be happy when you don't have enough? What does 'enough' even mean? In this episode, Dennis and Natasha unpack thi…

We may have friends who are close with their parents. Unfortunately for some of us, we aren’t just distant with our folks or argue with them from time to time. We may despise our mum, dad, or both. Is it ok to hate our parents if they've never loved us? Dennis and Natasha tell their stories of how they make sense of their relationship with their pa…