Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Y ...
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Friendship 101. Are you a good friend? Are you good friend material? Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and an…
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Today I want to talk about knowing where to look. Knowing where to look. And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet. I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/173679…
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Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system". The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes. We’ll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week’s episode. Background: Boo…
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No one has a monopoly on good ideas. Oftentimes you can find better ways of doing things or solving problems by being more exposed to others, other countries, other regions, maybe other places in your own country or region, other ways of thinking. Why not let the best ideas bubble up to the top to benefit yourself, your community, or your country. …
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Youth is wasted on the young. You may have heard that expression. If you are a young person, you might think that is what old people say. If you are an old person, maybe you say that with a sense of regret - thinking of missed opportunities or mistakes from your past. Today, I want to talk about this concept, and if there is any knowledge that need…
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You may have heard the expression “An idle mind is the Devil’s workshop”. Okay if an idle mind is the Devil’s workshop, what exactly are you supposed to occupy your mind with? Busywork? What are we supposed to fill our heads with? Is the answer the same for everybody, or does it depend? That is the subject of today’s podcast. Background: Book's web…
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100 more. If you have listened to the podcast for a while, I understand that I might have come off as rather dismissive or uncaring about people who aren’t at what I call Level 3: meaning family wife, partner, children, and your closest friends. But that isn’t the case. Today I want to share how I think about my relationships with people who are no…
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After watching The Tinder Swindler documentary on Netflix and seeing how the ladies victimized got called gold diggers by some when their story broke, I got thinking about real gold diggers and how you - yes you - might have to deal with such a situation in your own life. If you haven’t seen that documentary, you can Google “Tinder Swindler” and re…
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How can you meet a great lady without being creepy or inappropriate in the modern MeToo world? Opportunities in life to connect with that great lady might pass you by if you are too afraid to act or let the world know you are there, or even exist. Being afraid to speak up will likely get you nowhere. Is there a balance that can be struck for well-i…
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Today I share my views on the general topic of jealousy as it relates to dating and relationships. I’ll start with a true story involving someone I used to know that is an example of the worst possible way events can unfold for someone consumed with jealousy. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://…
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Time. We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time. You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets. You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you. In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time. Backg…
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I have conducted the greatest survey of all time on the subject of flirting with and approaching women. Never before in world history has such an impactful and societally-beneficial survey been done. Today, I share the results with you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/17367…
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This week’s episode is a gift from me to all of humanity. For this week’s work, people are going to erect statues of me in town squares worldwide. They are going to name schools after me. I might get a Nobel Prize for this breakthrough in human culture and understanding. Why might I receive those accolades? I am going to help you read her mind. Yes…
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While I recommend men act in predictably consistent and high-quality ways in all ways and at all times based on the principles and standards from the book, you’ll do better in the dating process if you tailor your approach to each lady based on her likes and personality. That is a wide-ranging topic, but today I want to dig into one specific area y…
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How do you work up the nerve to meet someone new? Being a gentlemen doesn’t mean you have to be one of those last place-finishing nice guys. You can be bold. You can be cocky. You can be audacious even. In this week’s episode, we looking finding the balance between being bold, and being respectful and honest in meeting new, interesting women. Backg…
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The world can be a strange place. People can behave oddly and in ways not aligned with our principles and beliefs from the book. Not everyone will be happy with your success. Not everyone wants to see you stack wins every day. Not everyone wants to see your continuous improvement, and your steady progress toward achieving your goals. Not everyone w…
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This week’s episode is a bit more raw and edgy than normal. We are going to take an honest and candid look at the awkward subject of paying for sex. If you are sensitive or squeamish, you might want to skip this one. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere …
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Today is the last installment of our three-part series on the ethics of flirting, meeting great women, and dating. We are going to look at a few more common problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, and relationships. And you are going to g…
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Tonality. How you say things is at least as important as what you say in many cases. In this week’s episode, we’ll go into what tonality is, talk about several general-purpose best practices, and then examine how they might apply to meeting new women, dating, and relationships. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on…
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Negativity. There’s an abundance of it out in the world right now and it is hard to avoid. You can’t just ignore negativity, or wish it away. So, what are you supposed to do to contain its impacts on your life. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else y…
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The 7-year itch. What does that mean, and is it real? Is your relationship or marriage really doomed after 7 years? Will it start into some sort of decline? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your co…
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In this week’s episode, we talk about the social media platform TikTok. I am testing TikTok to see if there are any free marketing opportunities there for me that might help me move my stuff for sale, and I while I was checking out everything I started to wonder if TikTok might be useful for you guys. So today I want to take you through what I foun…
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In this week’s episode, we talk about something that happened recently that might have been a missed opportunity, something that had great potential for millions of young people, and people of all ages around the world, but it just didn’t get any traction. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www…
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Your temper. This week I want to talk about the very practical subject of how to deal with getting angry, or losing your temper. Unfortunately, daily life is filled with opportunities for this to happen, and I want to share how I think about this topic and deal with it myself. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on …
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What does it mean exactly when someone says they are “living their best life”? Best life? If that is such a thing, how do you go from where you are today to this best life? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider …
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Today we are going continue the deep dive we began in the last episode into the ethics of flirting, meeting great women, and dating. We are going to look into how to think about several aspects and problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, …
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Today we are going to look into the subject of the ethics of flirting and dating. What sort of things are good or not so good when it comes to meeting women: your intentions, how you act, the decisions you have to make along the way, your treatment of women, and generally how you think about the whole subject. We’ll do this by talking about some sp…
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I very intentionally don’t normally discuss topical or news items in this podcast, but in rare cases when I feel I have insights from a particular event that might be useful for you, I’ll speak up. Today is one of those days. As of when I am recording this, February 5th, 2022, popular podcaster and celebrity Joe Rogan got into a great deal of troub…
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We are two years in to the COVID-19 pandemic, and it’s time for another morale boost. In my own life, I continue to see people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. Cracking under pressure, that isn’t us. Yielding or compromising on our standards and principles, that isn’t us. We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But, again, it d…
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You may encounter what can be called mean women in your life. I am using the term “mean” to refer to women, or anyone, who generally rejects or is hostile toward men or all people for no apparent reason and without provocation. I want you to have the tools to effectively deal with that situation should it arise. Background: Book's website: Gentleme…
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Matchmaking. This week I want to talk about what matchmaking services are, should you use such services, and what would be their value to you given you have the Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book. For those considering a career in matchmaking or relationship coaching, should you provide such services once you have mastered the book or adapted some …
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This week I want to talk about something very current - a very modern problem - and that is striking some sort of productive and healthy balance between your online or digital activities and real life. The draw and appeal of things like Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and online gaming can be so powerful to many folks that it might affect th…
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It’s time for another morale boost. I wish it wasn’t the case, but it is needed. I am, like I am sure all of you are, disappointed that the COVID-19 pandemic is still dragging on and affecting so many people and the economy. In my own life, I am seeing too many people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. That isn’t what we do, is it? …
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Today we are going to look back at a women’s beauty rating scale invented by comedian Patrice O’Neal. Patrice introduced this concept in response to a listener’s question on his Black Philip radio show several years ago. We’ll knock the ugly, misogynistic parts off of Patrice's rating scale and see if it still has any value in today’s modern world.…
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This week I want to share several pearls of wisdom and best practices around communications and conducting yourself to your best advantage out there in the world. Too many people go through life not realizing how vital effective communications and healthy relationships are. Don’t let that be you. This advice will work for you for cultivating and su…
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Finally, the greatest moment in flirting history has arrived! Children will be reading about this day in their history books 100 years from now. Why? The Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book is available for sale on Amazon! Don’t worry, this podcast won’t be a long, boring ad for the book. There is plenty of meat on the bone this week for content, ju…
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This week we talk about intersection of the life philosophy proposed by the book and what I think is ultimately behind why so many people are angry, upset, and feeling despair about their circumstances and their futures that expressed itself in recent violence in the United States. To be clear, I intentionally don’t talk about politics in this podc…
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This episode is another in our morale boost series, which is something we are doing every few weeks to help us all get through the pandemic together in the highest-quality way possible. It is intended for anyone out there feeling social isolation, loneliness, depression, anyone feeling anxious about the future, suffering unemployment, or worried ab…
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Do not crack. DO NOT START FALLING APART as this pandemic drags on, Do not break discipline AT ALL, no matter what your circumstances are. It is November 3rd 2020, and we are 8 months into the COVID-19 pandemic. Yes, there are still millions of people out there suffering various health, financial, physical and emotional impacts. Maybe you have fami…
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In this episode we explore all the best things about Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, looking back over the course of his whole life. We do this to see what we can learn from his example relevant to our topic, and involving personal conduct, relationships, family, and life. This is another installment in the self-improvement series that we showcase as pa…
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In this episode we explore all the best things about Michelle Obama, looking back over the course of her whole life. We do this to see what we can learn from her example relevant to relationships, family, and life. We also discuss how YOU can come on to the podcast using Michelle and Barack's first date as an example! Background: Book's website: Ge…
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In this episode, I want to take a little time to give you a status update on the book, and also dig a little more into the reasons why I wrote it. Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidesPor Gentlemen‘s Guide to Flirting
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In this episode we have some fun and take look back at a wonderful hit movie relevant to our subject -- HITCH with Will Smith. We’ll do this using perspectives and advice from the book. This isn’t a full-length movie watch-along, rather we take a look at some key points and highlights from the film and provide commentary. I think you’re going like …
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This special episode is intended as a morale boost to anyone out there feeling social isolation, loneliness, depression, anyone feeling anxious about the future, suffering unemployment, or worried about yourself, your family, or others as part of the COVID-19 pandemic. I am going to share concepts from the book, Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting, that …
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In this episode we talk about flirting and meeting women, during a pandemic. There are special considerations to take into account during these trying COVID/coronavirus times, but there are ways to proceed that are high-quality and aligned with our rules and principles. We have a few useful COVID-specific ideas for in-person situations. We also pro…
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Episode 002 - A fresh look at the Will Smith/Jada Pinkett Smith/August Alsina controversy, 3 August 2020
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In this episode, we take a fresh look at a recent news event involving Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith, and August Alsina through the lens provided by the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting. The Smiths released a video on Facebook to discuss their view of the matter, and help clear the air. I felt there were some valuable lessons to be learned from …
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Here we introduce the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting podcast and the associated Youtube channel. Both are in support of and extend the book: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/). In this video we cover what the book is all about and what it is intended to do for you. T…
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