Welcome to The Hilary Silver Podcast. Hilary started this podcast to invite listeners into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you more successful in love and life by turning your focus towards the only person who really matters in your life: YOU. (Yeah, she said it). This isn’t a self-care podcast – it’s a self-centered one. Why? Because, despite what your mom told you, you really are the center of the universe. Sound cringey? Scary? Selfish? Good. It’s discomfort tha ...
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Episode 32: Awaken Your Feminine Energy for Beauty, Productivity, and Love Ladies, let’s get real: juggling work, family, and everything in between is no small feat. But does it have to come at the expense of your well-being (and let’s face it, your glow)? In this episode, Hilary gets candid about why living in constant overdrive isn’t the flex we …
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Episode 31: Five Rules I Break for Fitness Who says you have to follow the rules to get fit? Hilary Silver unapologetically shreds the fitness handbook and proves you don’t need rigid routines to look amazing at 52. Forget arm day, endless cardio, and those boring sit-ups! In this episode, Hilary shares the five fitness rules she proudly ignores (p…
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Episode 30: Life on Your Own Terms Being self-centered isn’t selfish. It’s the ultimate power move! It’s time to put yourself first in a way that’s empowering, not egotistical. In this episode, Hilary redefines what it means to be self-centered and why it’s the key to living life on your own terms. At 52, she’s thriving in her health, relationships…
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Episode 29: Don’t Be Invisible Over 50 Ladies, forget “fading” with age. Hilary Silver is here to bust that myth wide open and show you how aging can crank up your confidence and magnetism. In this episode, she shuts down “Invisible Woman Syndrome”—a tired idea that women lose their spark over time. At 52, Hilary is thriving! She’s strutting into e…
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Episode 28: 6 Reasons Why You’re Stuck If you’ve mastered the “know better” game but somehow can’t crack the code to “do better“, this episode is for you! Hilary digs into the hidden mental blocks that keep you looping back to old habits. Tired of self-help that doesn’t stick? Get ready to uncover the six secret saboteurs standing between you and r…
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Episode 27: Uplevel in 2025 Ready to stop messing around and finally start making big moves in your life? In this episode, Hilary breaks down five power plays that are going to help you get exactly what you want—faster. She’s pulling back the curtain on the mindsets and strategies that have taken her from stuck to unstoppable. Hilary’s got the blue…
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Episode 26: Hard Work Won’t Make You Rich Think working yourself to the bone is the only way to get rich? Hilary flips that tired narrative on its head. Forget grinding yourself into the ground! Hilary built a $12 million business and hit millionaire status by 47, not by hustling harder, but by shifting her mindset. She’s here to tell you that weal…
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Episode 25: Life Advice That Actually Sucks Social media’s got advice flying at you from every angle—some of it sounds like a hug, but a lot of it just keeps you stuck. Hilary serves up the truth about why taking radical responsibility is the only way to break free and grow. With her no-nonsense approach, Hilary dives into the harmful narratives th…
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Episode 24: 9 Things WINNERS Don’t Do What makes high achievers stand out? Hilary Silver is here to break down 9 things winners don’t do—trust us, it’s not what you think. Ready to up your game in life, love, or business? This episode is your VIP ticket! Episode Highlights: Winners don’t sit around complaining. They handle it, find solutions, and m…
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Episode 23: This Virtue May Make You RICH What if impatience wasn’t a flaw but your secret success weapon? Hilary Silver flips the script on the idea that patience is always a virtue. She shows how tapping into her impatience fueled her transition from local therapist to global coaching powerhouse. In this episode, Hilary reveals how urgency, actio…
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Episode 22: The Sneaky Ways We Self Sabotage Ambivalence might seem harmless, but it’s that sneaky little voice that keeps you stuck, second-guessing, and ultimately self-sabotaging your goals. In this episode, Hilary pulls no punches, diving into how those “meh” feelings are secretly holding you back from what you really want. She shares personal …
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EP21 - 9 Habits to Look 10 Years Younger It’s more than genetics—looking and feeling youthful is largely about the choices you make every day. As Hilary celebrates her 52nd birthday, she’s spilling her best-kept secrets to staying energized and radiant. Episode Highlights: Mindset Magic: Hilary’s dishing out four game-changing mindset habits that h…
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EP20 - You’re Not Broken, Stop Fixing Yourself The key to true personal growth isn’t fixing your flaws, but embracing them as part of your wholeness. Hilary dives into this idea, challenging the widespread obsession with constant self-improvement. Do we really need to fix every perceived flaw, or is there a better path? In this episode, she advocat…
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EP19 - Seeing Good is Bad Is seeing only the good in others truly noble and a characteristic to aspire to? Hilary debunks the myth that focusing solely on the positive aspects of people is virtuous. In fact, she suggests that this one-sided, limited viewpoint is not only not good for you, but it’s actually a harmful set-up for everyone involved. Ep…
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EP18 - This Radical Gratitude Practice Will Change The Results In Your Life Why isn’t gratitude bringing the happiness we expect? In this episode, Hilary shares a deeper, more radical approach to gratitude that will revolutionize how you view your past, especially the tough parts. Incorporating Hilary’s method into your daily practice leads to a st…
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In this episode, Hilary explores a pivotal realization she experienced shortly after she turned 50: the unnecessary burdens we all carry by tolerating less than we deserve. This episode is a candid exploration of personal thresholds, examining everything from daily inconveniences to significant life choices, and how moving past “what we put up with…
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Episode 16: This Brain Hack Made Me Millions Introduction: In the newest episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast, Hilary recounts her own profound journey of reshaping her thinking patterns in just 90 days, including a discussion of the very neuroscience technique that made her a millionaire. She shares her personal story along with practical, science…
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Episode #15: Take Back Your Power & Stop Caring What Others ThinkIntroduction In this episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast, Hilary addresses a common struggle many of us face: the concern about others' opinions. If you've ever felt burdened by worrying about what others think of you and wish you could just stop caring, this episode is for you! Hila…
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Episode 14: How to Be More Confident Than 99% of The PopulationIntroduction In this episode, Hilary dives into what true confidence means and how you can achieve it to stand out among the rest. She challenges common misconceptions about confidence, discusses two distinct types of confidence, and shares a powerful seven-word mantra that can transfor…
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Introduction In Episode #13: How I Quit HIIT and Got Super Fit at 50! Hilary shares her personal journey of transforming her fitness routine as she approached her fifties. Offering a blend of personal anecdotes and practical advice, she discusses the importance of listening to one’s body and reshaping one's fitness philosophy to align with her over…
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Episode #12: Been Ghosted? The Secret To Getting Closure Introduction: If you've ever been ghosted or had a relationship end without an obvious explanation, this episode is for you. In this week’s episode, Hilary dives into the often misunderstood concept of closure in relationships. She explores why seeking closure from others can be unfulfilling …
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Episode #11: Your Questions, Answered! Welcome to another bonus episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast: "Your Questions, Answered!" Today, Hilary takes on questions submitted by listeners, tackling a wide range of personal and emotional queries. This episode not only answers listener-specific questions but also touches on universal themes that resona…
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Episode #10: The Other "L" Word No One Wants To Talk About Introduction In this thought-provoking episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast, Hilary takes on the epidemic of loneliness, which she calls "the other L word." Exploring the nuances between situational and existential loneliness, Hilary shares insights on how we contribute to our own feelings …
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Episode #9: Your Lover Lying To You Is Partly Your Fault Introduction In Episode #9 of The Hilary Silver Podcast, "Your Lover Lying To You Is Partly Your Fault," Hilary dives into the complexities of how our own actions and reactions can inadvertently invite dishonesty in our relationships. Building on the insights from the previous episode about t…
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Episode #8: Speak Your Truth & Stop Betraying Yourself Introduction In this episode, Hilary dives into the intricate dynamics of trust within relationships, emphasizing the often overlooked ways we may inadvertently betray ourselves and others. She discusses the distinction between factual honesty and emotional truth, and how failing to express the…
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Episode 7: Stop Sacrificing Yourself For Others Introduction Hello, listeners! Welcome back to this week's episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast. In today's episode, titled "Why We Should All Quit Being Selfless (and how this benefits everyone)," we take on the notion of selflessness and its impact on our lives and those around us. We often hear tha…
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Episode 6: How To Stop Emotional Eating Introduction Hello, Listeners! Welcome back to this week’s episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast. Join me as I dive into the world of emotional eating, where I share both my personal journey and family history with food along with my professional insights. Today, we're exploring how our relationships with food…
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Episode 5: Your Questions Answered! Narcissism, Romance, Therapy & More Introduction Hello, listeners! Welcome back to The Hilary Silver Podcast. Today’s episode is a special one—it’s our very first BONUS Q&A session! We’ve been receiving so many insightful and thought-provoking questions from you all, and it’s time we dive into them. From dealing …
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Episode 4: The ONLY Cure For Anxiety. What No One Else Is Saying Introduction Welcome to Episode #4 of The Hilary Silver Podcast, "The ONLY Cure For Anxiety. What No One Else Is SayingToday," Hilary challenges the conventional understanding of anxiety, revealing why it is merely a symptom of deeper issues rather than the core problem itself. Join u…
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Episode 3: Why Therapy Keeps You Stuck (From This Former Therapist) Introduction Welcome back to the Hilary Silver Podcast. Today’s episode is particularly close to my heart. As a former certified psychotherapist, I’ve seen the ins and outs of the therapy world, and I’ve come to some controversial conclusions. Today’s conversation is about why I be…
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Episode 2: High Achieving Women Have Low Self Worth Introduction Welcome back to The Hilary Silver Podcast! Today, we’re peeling back the layers on why so many talented, successful women face challenges in love. Inspired by the new JLo documentary on Amazon Prime, we’ll explore how even the most accomplished among us can struggle with issues of sel…
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Episode 1: The Personality Type That Attracts Narcissists Introduction Welcome to the very first episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast! You're probably already aware that narcissism is everywhere—from Instagram to top-chart podcasts and headline news. But while it's important to recognize narcissistic behaviors for our safety and well-being, there's…
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Welcome to The Hilary Silver Podcast. Hilary started this podcast to invite listeners into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you more successful in love and life by turning your focus towards the only person who really matters in your life: YOU. (Yeah, she said it). This isn’t a self-care podcast – it’s a self-centered one.…
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