are we... totally misunderstanding men?

Are We Okay? with licensed therapists, Maddy & Jennifer

In this episode, Maddy and Jennifer, two therapists and best friends, dive deep into the male psyche, exploring dating patterns and common misconceptions around relationships.
They share insights from their own clinical experiences, reflecting on how men approach dating and relationships differently from women, while breaking down why communication gaps happen so frequently.

They chat about everything from societal expectations on men to the pressure women feel to settle down, and even offer tips for avoiding common dating pitfalls. Along the way, they also tackle some listener questions, including how to rebuild confidence after a breakup, whether it’s okay to ask to split the bill on dates, and navigating dating after weight loss.

Key topics:

• The male perspective on dating and the differences in urgency between men and women.
• How women often misinterpret men’s actions in dating due to assumptions or mind-reading.
• How societal pressures shape men’s and women’s dating behaviors.
• Real advice for women on how to stop overthinking, communicate better, and avoid sending mixed signals.
• Insightful listener Q&A: cheating, financial struggles while dating, and confidence after weight loss.

Resources & Links:

• Email us your questions at: [e-mail]
• Follow Jennifer on Instagram: @manhattan.wellness
• Follow Maddy on Instagram: @downtownbehavioralwellness

Downtown Behavioral Wellness: Founded by Maddy Ellberger, Downtown Behavioral Wellness is a private therapy practice in NYC specializing in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The practice focuses on providing evidence-based treatments for young adults and middle-aged clients dealing with life transitions, anxiety, and the unique challenges of their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Whether you're grappling with relationship issues, career stress, or emotional regulation, Downtown Behavioral Wellness is there to support you every step of the way.

Manhattan Wellness: Led by Jennifer Teplin, Manhattan Wellness is a boutique therapy practice dedicated to helping young professionals in New York City. Specializing in issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and major life transitions like dating, engagements, and new motherhood, the team at Manhattan Wellness provides compassionate, individualized care to help clients navigate the ups and downs of their 20s and 30s.
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Co-Host: Maddy Ellberger
Co-Host: Jennifer Teplin
Executive Producer: Wicked Child Studio, Hailey Rovner Malach