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A discussion forum about matters relating to sex addiction from the point of view of psychoanalysis
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Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein invite guests to join an ongoing conversation about sex, addiction, and relationships. Wendy, Dan, Jeanne, and Tim are experts in the fields of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and trauma resolution.
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Need help with sexual addiction, pornography, or sexual purity issues? You are not alone. We are walking the road of recovery, and this podcast is a casual approach to finding help, hope, and healing.
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Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions with Craig Perra (sex addiction, porn addiction, sexual health)
Craig Perra
The world's #1 podcast on sex addiction & porn addiction. As seen on LifeTime TV, A&E, Steve Harvey & Katie Couric - dedicated to healthy sexuality and great living by former sex addict, porn addict, drug addict executive/attorney, founder of The Mindful Habit® System Coach Craig Perra. Raw stories about his slow descent into the depths of sex addiction hell, coupled with a science-based, evolved approach to healing from sex and porn addiction will change your life and set you free from the ...
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On Sex, Love, and Addiction, Dr. Rob Weiss, sex therapist and author of a dozen books on sex and relationship healing, interviews global experts like Dr’s. Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and Helen Fisher, Dr. Kenneth Adams among others. This podcast features robust discussions focused on healing from chronic infidelity, cheating, porn, and sex addiction, along with the pain of relationship betrayal. Dr. Rob is Chief Clinical Officer for Seeking integrity Treatment Centers. H ...
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The Femdom Journey Podcast - From Femdom & Findom Addiction to Healthy, Positive Sex & Intimacy
Tobias
How do men who struggle with a femdom & findom addiction can change and create a healthy, positive and fulfillfing sex life with real intimacy? - I am Tobias and I want to break the silence about destructive sexual behavior in the realm of femdom and findom. I went through an intense femdom & findom addiction in the last 9 years and successfully came out of it. Now I create helpful content and a safe space to open up for all the men that are negatively affected by femdom and findom. Are you ...
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Join us as we dive into the topic of healthy masturbation and what it means in the context of sexuality and addiction recovery. We want to emphasize the importance of changing one's relationship with masturbation rather than simply stopping the behavior altogether.Por Timzi9
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Season-8-Episode-7_-The-Road-to-Recovery.mp3 Found yourself in a place you never thought you’d be? The shame and hopelessness sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors can ignite are real…but there is hope. Today Chris talks about how he entered recovery and reached sobriety early on. The dif…
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (24): female sex addiction/women's infidelity (part two)
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Part two of this discussion, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, offers some case illustrative descriptions culled from his work with female sex addicts/problem sexual behaviors--compares/contrasts with profiles exhibited by male patients--again referencing the writing of Michelle Langley…
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Surviving His Sex & Porn Addiction: Rock Bottom Step by Step Survival Guide by Michelle Perra
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Navigating Betrayal Trauma: A Spouse Survival Guide Today we delve into the profound journey of navigating betrayal trauma as a partner of someone struggling with sex addiction and pornography addiction. In this podcast, we will explore key insights shared by Michelle Perra, who offers a unique perspective and valuable advice from her own experienc…
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Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses female sex addiction and women's infidelity, profiling the provocative insights of Michelle Langley, author of Women's Infidelity: Living in Limbo, and highlighting that book's compatibility with psychoanalytic theoryPor Graeme Daniels
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We want to tackle the sensitive topic of healthy masturbation within the context of relationships affected by betrayal and addiction. Listen to our quick conversation to address the concerns and fears partners may have about their addicted spouse considering a new approach to masturbation. Our conversation delves into the complexity of individual s…
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (22): Short term treatment versus the in-depth long term
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Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, revisits the chestnut meta debate that exists between proponents of short term treatment options versus those, like Graeme, who advocate for a longer term commitment to in-depth treatment--as "triggered", by marketing tactics used by treatment programs.…
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Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, welcomes therapist Eddie Capparucci as a guest to the podcast to discuss sex addiction and/or sexual compulsivity, plus the matter of how psychotherapy imparts, facilitates exploration of sexual mores, or imposes a society's values upon those who seek mental health treatment.…
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You must incorporate basic risk management principles into your life to break your bad habits and beat sex & porn addiction once and for all. We manage risk in business but often fail miserably to do it in our personal lives. Listen to how Craig brings the critical organizational philosophy of risk management into a simple, easy way to leverage the…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Season-8-Episode-6_-Dan-Johnson-Interview.mp3 Today I’m excited to interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. I recently listened to Dan’s podcast and was blown away by his simple, yet profound method for how he stopped watching porn. Grab a pen and paper or open up your favorite note-taking app to captu…
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In the episode, we discuss the answers you sent in for your mailbag questions. You all asked: Could a sexless long term marriage be a reason for sex addiction? Is it possible to enable the sex addicts behavior? What's the best role a partner can take towards the addicted spouse?Por Timzi9
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Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, riffs on ideas of instinct, personality development, Freudian theory, the rigidity of defenses, and relates these ideas to what happens when people seek help for their problems yet impulses still emergePor Graeme Daniels
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Annie and Melissa are two women who have experienced deep marital betrayal in their relationship. The signs weren’t always clear as to what was actually going on, but when the wool had been pulled over their eyes, the amount of emotions, judgment, and pain they experienced took a long time to recover from. This episode is part two of these two wome…
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Join us for a deep dive into the complexities of change within relationships impacted by betrayal and addiction. In this thought-provoking discussion, our panel delves into the intricacies of transformation, highlighting the pivotal role of discomfort in catalyzing meaningful shifts.Por Timzi9
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Annie and Melissa are two women who have experienced deep marital betrayal in their relationship. The signs weren’t always clear as to what was going on, but when the wool had been pulled over their eyes, the amount of emotions, judgment, and pain they experienced took a long time to recover from. These two women share their stories and also share …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Season-8-Episode-5.mp3 Today, I’m talking with Jorge, about the importance of community as it relates to recovery. I had no idea that rats would be a part of this conversation. Join us on the next episode of the purity podcast where I interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. Dan has created a really in…
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In this enlightening episode of our podcast, we delve into the nuanced world of addiction recovery, challenging the traditional emphasis on counting sober days. While acknowledging the sense of achievement this practice can provide, we explore its potential downsides, such as fostering an obsessive focus on the substance or behavior one is trying t…
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Join us for a thought-provoking discussion as we delve into the complex interplay between sexlessness and sex addiction within marriages. In this candid conversation, our panelists offer insights and perspectives on whether a sexless long-term marriage could be a reason for sex addiction.Por Timzi9
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Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, invites therapist and sex addiction expert Don Mathews back to the podcast to discuss a controversial, now nine year old California law about reporting use of underage porn that has moved through supreme and appellate courts and is now about to get its due in an LA superior courtroom. D…
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Today, we're thrilled to welcome authors Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to discuss their book 'Building True Intimacy'. Let's explore the layers of trust, vulnerability, and connection that form the foundation of lasting relationships.Por Timzi9
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (18): Psychodynamics, sexual compulsivity and positive psychology
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, welcomes therapist Andrew Suuskind as a guest to discuss sexual compulsivity, the pathologizing of sex, psychodynamic underpinnings to problem sexual behavior, plus the fostering of emotional resilience and the embracing of imperfection.…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Season-8-Episode-4_-Healthy-Sexuality.mp3 Jorge joins Season 8 for the first time to talk about Healthy Sexuality. The conversation (that involved a lot of editing, lol) is designed to help men understand what healthy sexuality looks like and steps needed to help move from unhealthy sexuality into h…
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Jason VanRuler is a therapist, coach, speaker, and author dedicated to impacting those who make an impact. His first book, Get Past Your Past, is all about establishing a mindset of emotional health and resilience to find lasting wholeness. In this episode, Jason shares his personal self-development journey, why going to therapy is so difficult for…
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses again the psychic defense of splitting in the context of one famously understood "split", Freud's Madonna Whore complex, and a lesser known female-to-male splitting analogy, the Saint-Brute.Por Graeme Daniels
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Sandra A. Shachar, Ph.D., is a Licensed Psychologist in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and has over thirty years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families affected by Betrayal Trauma. She is also the author of The Porn Solution, which dives into the world of betrayal through porn use and what partners can do to navigate the…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-3_-Mark-Denison-Interview.mp3 In Episode 3 Chris interviews Mark Denison to talk about his new book, Recovery Rules. In his book Mark gives 100 crazy awesome rules to a healthy recovery. We touch on several of the rules, talk about the difference between sobriety and recovery, and c…
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, improvises a version of his recent webinar for the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), about all things to do with psychoanalysis and sex addictionPor Graeme Daniels
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Sandra A. Shachar, Ph.D., is a Licensed Psychologist in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and has over thirty years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families affected by Betrayal Trauma. She is also the author of The Porn Solution, which dives into the world of betrayal through porn use and what partners can do to navigate the…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-2_-Thomas-Berry-Interview.mp3 Join Chris as he interviews Thomas Berry from Redemptive Living. Thomas was the speaker at the Castimonia Retreat in November of 2023 and he gives a recap from his sessions. Thomas also shares some observations he had from the retreat and we unpack some…
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, contemplates the presence, the pedigree, the value (or not) of the phrase "actions speak louder than words" in modern culture, and what psychoanalysis, the business world, and the law, have to say, in actions and words, about this principle.…
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Do you see yourself in the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder? BPD Symptoms: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20370237 I Hate You, Don’t Leave Me! https://a.co/d/7lUwyOM You Might be a Narcissist If: https://a.co/d/5oeJiW2 Don't take medical advice from a life coach on the i…
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Join us in today's Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships as we dive into the intriguing topic of secrets. Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein, and Dan Drake explore the nuances between secrets and lying, discussing the impact on individuals and relationships. Are secrets rooted in shame, or can they sometimes be necessary boundaries?…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-1.mp3 After 7 years of hosting the Purity Podcast Doug has passed the baton to Chris. Today, Chris introduces himself and welcomes you into his journey of recovery as well as your own. You may find yourself in a very dark place right now, but you are not alone, and there is hope. He…
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Have you ever wondered about the correlation between relationship investment and the tolerance partners have for waiting during the recovery process? In this insightful discussion, our expert delves into the complex dynamics of trust, trauma, and the role they play in addiction recovery. Join us as we explore real-life scenarios and hear from indiv…
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Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses addiction from a psychoanalytic and 12-step perspective, speaking of the importance of consciousness as a precursor to honesty; the problem that addicts often don't know what they're feeling because their defenses are so embedded.…
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Dr. Rob and Tami talk about the healing properties a journal practice can have. A listener wrote that her therapist wants her to journal out the resentment and anger that her SA has caused her, but the mere thought of doing this gets her re-triggered and angry all over again. Is there really a point to all of this aside from re-remembering the betr…
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In this episode, we are speaking on secrets. Navigating secrets and boundaries is tricky. Some are about managing stigma, others about respecting boundaries. It's crucial to distinguish between rigorous and brutal honesty. What are your thoughts on this delicate balance?Por Timzi9
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In this episode, we are speaking with the brilliant Michelle Mays, a seasoned expert in sex addiction, trauma, and relationships. Her new book, "The Betrayal Bind," is a must-read! Tune in as we dive into various topics, including Michelle's coaching program, her impactful work in the field, and the complexities of betrayal trauma.…
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Listen in as Chris, Jorge and Doug talk about the illustration of darkness vs. Light. We walk through struggles of so many in our lives, and it is so helpful to remember the light and joy that is in us. That gives us wisdom and strength to continue the journey. This is also Doug’s last episode at the host, and Chris is taking over the next 100! Dou…
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Dr. Rob and Tami break down the gray area between just having fun, being “at-risk” for an addiction, and being a full-blown addict. It can be difficult to define the line fully when you’re in the middle of a “good time.” Dr. Rob offers various considerations for you to think about to determine whether you’re barely teetering the line or if you’re i…
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels draws from a vignette from the book Getting Real About Sex Addiction, to discuss the relative merits of individual therapy or psychoanalysis versus couples therapy in the context of sex addiction or infidelity recovery treatment.Por Graeme Daniels
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Sex and Porn Addiction Gets Worse Over The Holidays. All addictions get worse. Learn how to make sure that that doesn't happen. And learn how to use your drives in the car to practice critical mindfulness skills that will help you stay in control and feel better about yourself. When you get angry in the car, you are self-harming and hurting yoursel…
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (12): Three therapists talk about sex addiction treatment
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In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, welcomes to the podcast two first time guests, therapists Jen Shelby and John Kravitz, to discuss their affiliation, work with sex addicts and impacted partners of sex addiction.Por Graeme Daniels
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